You have been criticising yourself for years and it has not worked,
Try approving of yourself and see what happens…
Friends,
I had an irrational fear of writing something in front of other people. Even in my exam, my pen stop writing whenever the teacher stared at my answer sheet in front of me. This may be called a ‘writing phobia’. Yes, I have been suffering for a long time with this problem.
Fear of writing, fear of sharing my work, and fear of publishing all were problems for me — and there was always a question wandering in my mind about how I can overcome them. There may be the fear of failure.
One day, I made courageously shared a matter about my fear of writing with one of my close friends.
The reaction of my friend was, Go ahead and get started writing on a daily basis in your notebook. You can choose the stupidest words in your writing without fear because no one is reading that.
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Retiredकलम 
most people including me do suffer from this related to several different things
1. fear of writing/creative writing
2. fear of people’s judgement/opinions
3. fear of rejection
4. lack of confidence
and yes to overcome all these fears one need to write any damn thing that the person wants to write. It needs to be practiced again and again
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Very well said, dear.
Your writing power is better, I like your style of writing.
But it requires courage to accept our shortcomings.
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unless and until we accept our faults we cant rectify them.. acceptance is important.
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Yes, That is the reality and secret to improving ourselves.
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Approve of yourself! Yes! Magnificent thought and action. Great post and great idea, and I am sure that your writing, Sir, as well as your drawings, will be of immense satisfaction to you and to others. Cheers and enjoy this lovely morning.
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Thank you so much for your kind words..
I don’t know about others but my writing and drawing give me immense satisfaction. I like these hobbies very much ..
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I understand, I feel the same way about both. You’re very welcome Sir.
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Hello Sir,
How was the day ?
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Hello! A splendid day with great weather today Sir. Hope your day was great as well.
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We are enjoying the rainy here,
The weather is a bit humid but pleasant.
All the best Sir.
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As long as you are enjoying it it is worth it. All the best and a nice evening to you Sir.
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Sir, I have a personal question.
How much time do you spend on your Art work in a day?
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Sir, it depends on the day, some days even 12 hours, others 24…
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That is great Sir,
You have been so dedicated to your work. All the best.
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Thank you Sir. What I meant when I said some days 24 hours, is that I think much about what I am going to paint, so I count those hours of mental painting as part of the painting too. Sometimes you have to paint the painting in your mind several times before paint goes on the canvas. All the best Sir and a great Friday and weekend to you.
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I understand your feelings Sir.
The beauty is in how to focus on the subject for such a long time. That is your quality.. I have to steal it.
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It is yours sir, with my compliments. I find that when I am engaged in a painting or in writing poetry, the poetry starts in my head much before it ever goes on a paper or canvas…
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That is a lesson for me..
Thank you, Sir, Stay blessed.
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My pleasure Sir, you too and have a great night.
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Sweet dream.
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Thank you Sir. You too. All the best.
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