# When the Villain Steals Our Heart #

Daily writing prompt
Have you ever liked a villain more than the hero? Who and why?

Hello, dear friends!

I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful mood.

Today’s writing prompt made me stop and think:

“Have you ever liked a villain more than the hero? Who and why?”

What an interesting question!

We normally enter a film knowing whom we are supposed to like. The hero is brave, honest, and handsome; the villain is cruel, selfish, and dangerous. We cheer when the hero wins and celebrate when the villain is defeated.

But sometimes, something unexpected happens.

The villain becomes more interesting than the hero.

For me, one name that comes to mind is Sanjeev Kumar in the Hindi film Jaani Dushman.

Sanjeev Kumar was an extraordinary actor. He could make even a complicated or negative character feel human.

Watching him, I never felt that I was simply watching a “villain.” I was watching a person with emotions, weaknesses, ambitions and conflicts.

And perhaps that is the secret.

We may dislike what a character does, but still become fascinated by why he does it.

“A memorable villain is not someone we simply hate; he is someone we cannot stop thinking about.”

That is what great acting can do.

As a young moviegoer, I often looked at films in simple terms.

Hero = good.

Villain = bad.

End of story.

But age changes the way we look at people—and stories.

Today, I find myself more interested in the shades of grey.

Real people are not completely good or completely bad. We all have our strengths, weaknesses, fears, disappointments and contradictions.

Cinema sometimes reflects that truth beautifully.

The villain may make terrible choices, but behind those choices there may be a story.

Understanding that story does not mean approving of his actions.

Understanding and excusing are two very different things.

Think about some of cinema’s unforgettable villains.

Darth Vader from Star Wars is terrifying, yet his journey from Anakin Skywalker to Vader and eventually towards redemption makes him deeply fascinating.

Severus Snape from Harry Potter initially appears cold and cruel, but his complicated past changes our understanding of him.

And then there are characters like the Joker, whose unpredictability and psychological complexity can sometimes overshadow the conventional hero.

Why do such characters remain in our memories?

Because they make us think.

The hero tells us what is right.

The villain makes us ask:

Why did he become this way?

Perhaps I relate to these characters more today because growing older has changed my understanding of human nature.

I have learned that we should be careful before judging anyone.

Someone may appear rude, but perhaps they are carrying pain.

Someone may appear arrogant, but perhaps insecurity lies underneath.

Someone may seem distant, while inside they may be desperately looking for companionship.

We see the behaviour.

We rarely see the battle behind it.

“Every person you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.”

That thought has become more meaningful to me with the passing years.

I still love heroes.

Who doesn’t?

Heroes inspire courage, kindness, sacrifice and hope.

But villains can teach us about the consequences of anger, greed, jealousy, revenge and unchecked ambition.

They become warnings written into stories.

And sometimes, through their downfall, they remind us that our choices shape our destiny.

Perhaps that is why a well-written villain can stay in our memory longer than an ordinary hero.

For those of us who grew up watching Hindi films of an earlier era, characters like these are more than cinematic creations.

They are part of our memories.

We remember sitting in a dark cinema hall, following the story, cheering for the hero and waiting for the villain to get what he deserved.

But decades later, when we look back, we sometimes remember the villain’s performance more vividly.

That, to me, is the magic of a great actor.

The character may be negative, but the performance can be unforgettable.

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Would I actually choose a villain over a hero?

Not necessarily.

I would choose the more interesting character.

And sometimes, that happens to be the villain.

Sanjeev Kumar’s performance in Jaani Dushman reminds me that cinema doesn’t always have to give us characters we simply love or hate. Sometimes it gives us characters we question, understand, and remember.

Perhaps that is also true of life.

As we grow older, we stop looking for perfect heroes and perfectly wicked villains.

We begin to understand people as they really are—complicated, imperfect and wonderfully human.

So, yes, I have sometimes liked the villain more than the hero.

Not because I admire his wrongdoing.

But because he made me think.

And perhaps that is the greatest compliment we can give any character:

“You stayed with me long after the movie ended.”



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24 replies

  1. very nice .

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  2. I love villains that you learn to love – especially in TV series. For example, Dexter. You said this so well.

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  3. Sometimes, I appreciate how good the villain acting his/her character. We are both hero and villain in life, I believe.

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  4. This post is an explosion of the senses. I am not familiar with most of the moves mentioned. I have only seen one Star Wars, and I told my son Jar Jar Binks was cool. He only came to appreciate that recently.

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    • Thank you! I’m glad the post managed to create an “explosion of the senses” even without having seen most of the movies! 😊

      And I have to say, Jar Jar Binks was cool—you were simply ahead of your time! 😂 Perhaps your son just needed a few years to catch up with your excellent cinematic judgment.

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  5. Such a thoughtful reflection! 🎭 “A memorable villain is not someone we simply hate; he is someone we cannot stop thinking about” really nails it. Love the Sanjeev Kumar example, and the point about age changing how we see moral complexity is so true.

    — Khadija 🤍

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  6. Love the line about villains making us think while heroes tell us what’s right. That distinction really captures why the best-written antagonists linger so much longer in memory.

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  7. What a thoughtful reflection on a fascinating question! Sometimes the villain becomes more memorable precisely because he forces us to look beyond the simple division of good and evil. Your observation that understanding is not the same as excusing is particularly powerful.

    Great villains often reveal the complexities of human nature the fears, wounds, ambitions and choices that lie beneath outward behaviour. In that sense, the hero may inspire us, but the villain can make us question ourselves and the world around us.

    Your reflection on Sanjeev Kumar is also a beautiful reminder of the power of great acting. A truly memorable performance can make even a negative character feel deeply human without making his actions acceptable.

    Perhaps that is why some villains remain with us long after the hero has left the screen not because we approve of them, but because they make us think.

    A wonderful meditation on cinema, memory, human nature, and the many shades between right and wrong. 🙏

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    • Thank you so much for this beautifully expressed and thoughtful response. You have captured exactly what I was trying to explore—the fascinating space between good and evil, where understanding a character does not mean justifying his actions.

      I especially loved your thought that the villain can make us question ourselves and the world around us. And yes, Sanjeev Kumar’s remarkable acting made his character deeply human while never making his actions acceptable.

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  8. thetravelingtaylorsofficial's avatar

    Sanjeev Kumar is a great pick for this one — he had a way of playing a negative role without ever letting it flatten into pure menace, so you end up watching him instead of the hero. Jaani Dushman is a good example. I think you’re right that we walk in already told who to cheer for, and the films that stay with us are the ones that quietly undo that.

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    • Absolutely! Sanjeev Kumar had that rare ability to make even a negative character feel layered and human.
      You’re right—sometimes the most memorable films are the ones that make us question our assumptions about whom we should really be rooting for.
      That’s what makes great cinema stay with us. 😊

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