# Growing Younger #

Growing Younger is a celebration of the beautiful art of ageing with a youthful heart. It reminds us that youth is not measured by birthdays, wrinkles, or the calendar, but by our curiosity, dreams, gratitude, forgiveness, and willingness to begin again.

Sometimes, growing older is simply learning how to become young at heart all over again.

Growing Younger

They say,
“Look at you!
You are growing young again—
the pride of every gathering,
the sparkle in every room.”

They ask me for the secret,
the magic behind my youthful glow.
I smile and say,
“How can I explain
all the stories life has taught me to know?”

I have carried storms
inside my quiet heart.
I have walked through shadows,
fallen apart,
and somehow learned
to make a brand-new start.

Today, my life is a canvas,
and I choose the colours I want.
I paint my mornings with hope,
my evenings with gratitude,
and my nights
with beautiful dreams.

Once, I lived mostly for others—
their expectations,
their approval,
their happiness.

Now, I have finally learned
that living for myself
is not selfishness;
it is simply
another way of breathing.

I no longer drink
the bitter poison of arguments.
I have discovered something sweeter—
the quiet nectar of compromise,
forgiveness,
and letting go.

I have stopped carrying
every old wound
like a medal of honour.

Some battles
are better left unfinished.
Some arguments
are better left in silence.
And some people
are better loved
from a peaceful distance.

I don’t count candles
on my birthday anymore.
I count the mornings
that still make me curious.

So, yes—
perhaps I am growing young.

Not because time
has turned backward,
but because my heart
has stopped looking backward.

I don’t want
to relive my past.

I want to live my present.

I don’t chase youth anymore—
I carry it within me.

And if someone asks
how I still look so young,
I’ll simply smile and say:

“Age is what the calendar records;
youth is what the heart refuses to surrender.”

Yes, I am growing younger.

(Vijay Verma)
 www.retiredkalam.com



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  1. Verma ji, this is absolutely beautiful. Every stanza feels like a meditation, and the line “youth is what the heart refuses to surrender” will stay with me for a long time. Thank you for sharing this gentle, powerful reminder that growing younger is an inside job. 🙏✨

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    • Thank you so much for your beautiful words. 🙏 Your observation that the poem feels like a meditation touches me deeply.

      I truly believe that growing younger is less about turning back the clock and more about keeping the heart open—to joy, curiosity, dreams, and new beginnings.

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  2. This is so beautiful Verma ji🤍 I love the thought that growing younger is really about growing lighter, kinder, and more alive with each passing year. A truly uplifting read. 🌸🦋✨

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    • Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words. 🙏 I’m delighted that the thought resonated with you.

      Perhaps growing younger really is about becoming lighter—letting go of unnecessary burdens, choosing kindness over conflict, and finding joy in the little things.

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  3. Beautiful soulful words. Life is a journey and we all evolve and your words share your own personal evolution. Well done!!

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    • Thank you so much for your thoughtful words. 🙏 Yes, life is truly a journey of continuous evolution. With every experience, we learn, unlearn, and discover a little more about ourselves.

      I’m happy that my words could reflect a small part of that journey. After all, perhaps the real beauty of life lies not in reaching a destination, but in becoming a little wiser, kinder, and more grateful as we travel along.

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  4. very nice .

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  5. Your writting is beautiful 🍀🙏

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  6. I want to be like you when I “grow up”🥺

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    • Oh, what a beautiful compliment! 😊 But I’m still growing up myself—perhaps that’s the secret of life. We never really stop learning, dreaming, creating, and becoming.
      Let’s simply keep growing together, one joyful day at a time. 🙏

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