Hello dear friends,

I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and mindful mood.

Today, as I sat with a cup of my favorite green tea, listening to the gentle rustle of leaves outside my window, my mind wandered—as it often does.

But this time, I caught it in the act. I asked myself: What am I thinking? Why am I thinking this? And how can I regulate these thoughts?

That moment led me to a beautiful word I had recently come across—Metacognition.

A word that sounds complex but is, in fact, a simple and powerful key to understanding ourselves better. In a world brimming with distractions, overthinking has become an uninvited guest in many of our minds.

But what if we could learn to think about our thinking—and, in doing so, reclaim peace?

Let’s explore this beautiful journey of self-awareness.

What is Metacognition?

Metacognition means “thinking about thinking.” It is our ability to reflect on our thoughts, understand how our mind works, and regulate our mental processes.

This concept was first introduced by psychologist John Flavell in the 1970s and has since been a cornerstone in the fields of education and psychology.

In simpler terms, it’s like becoming the observer of your own thoughts rather than just a participant. You stop and ask, “Why am I worried about this?” or “Is this thought helpful or harmful?”

By practicing metacognition, we not only enhance our learning abilities but also gain mastery over the chaos of overthinking.

Overthinking: A Common Human Condition

We’ve all been there—lying awake at night, replaying past conversations, or obsessing over the future. Overthinking is often rooted in fear, anxiety, or the desire for control. It can lead to decision paralysis, stress, and mental fatigue.

Let me share a short story:

The Tale of the Two Wolves
An old Cherokee grandfather once told his grandson, “Inside every person, there are two wolves. One is full of fear, anger, envy, and regret. The other is joy, peace, love, and hope.”
The boy asked, “Which wolf wins?”
The grandfather replied, “The one you feed.”

Metacognition teaches us to recognize which wolf we’re feeding. It gives us the awareness to choose thoughts that serve us rather than drain us.

Scientific Backing: The Brain Loves Awareness

Neuroscience shows that when we engage in metacognitive reflection, we activate the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for decision-making, self-control, and goal-setting.

A Harvard study revealed that people spend 47% of their time thinking about something other than what they’re doing. That’s nearly half our life spent away from the present moment!

Practicing metacognition helps anchor us to the now, and the now is where peace resides.

How I Began Practicing Metacognition

In my post-retirement journey, I’ve embraced mindfulness and journaling. Recently, I started a habit: each morning, I sit in silence for 10 minutes and ask myself:

• What am I thinking right now?
• Are these thoughts helpful?
• Can I reframe them?

At first, it felt awkward. But slowly, I began to catch the overthinking before it spiraled. I noticed patterns: I often worried about things I couldn’t control. Through awareness, I gently started letting go.

Simple Ways to Practice Metacognition

Here are some methods that have helped me—and might help you too:

1. Journaling: Write down your thoughts and reflect on them. Ask yourself: Why do I believe this? Is there another way to see this?
   
2. Mindful Breaks: Set a timer every few hours to pause and check in: Where is my mind right now?
   
3. Thought Labeling: Instead of saying “I’m anxious,” say “I notice I’m feeling anxious.” This slight shift gives you power over your thoughts.
   
4. Socratic Questioning: Challenge your thoughts like a wise teacher. What’s the evidence for this belief? Could I be wrong?

The Gift of Inner Peace

Practicing metacognition is like learning to sit beside a waterfall—your thoughts are the water, flowing endlessly.

But now, instead of being dragged by the current, you’re simply watching. You smile at your thoughts. You thank them. And you let them pass.

One of the most freeing realizations I’ve had is this: I am not my thoughts. I am the awareness behind them.

Final Submission

Dear friends, overthinking is natural, but we don’t have to be its prisoners. By practicing metacognition, we can guide our minds with compassion, curiosity, and clarity.

Let’s learn to pause. To question. To reflect.
And in that space between thought and awareness —let’s find freedom.

BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE

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