The World Bank has made this assessment assuming the average age of a person is 78 years, according to which we have only 9 years and 6 months for ourselves

. According to this assessment, we spent on average, 29 years in sleep, 3-4 years in education, 10-12 years in employment, 9-10 years in entertainment, 15-18 years in other daily activities like eating, traveling, daily work  etc .

In this way, we have only 3500 days or 84,000 hours to fulfill our dreams in life . So let’s discuss how to make our life happy…

If a person thinks that whatever happens to us is not in our hands, then this misconception or wrong belief must be changed after reading this article..

Rules of life: –

We are going to make a new beginning of life and for this we have to follow some basic rules. I think these rules will change our life.

Self Confidence: –

Confidence means “Believe in Yourself”.  Friends, having self-confidence in our life is as important as having a fragrance in a flower, we can say without self-confidence, our life becomes like a living corpse. No matter how talented a person is, they cannot do anything without confidence.

Self-confidence is the foundation of success, and due to lack of self-confidence a person always doubts about the work done by him.

Self Confidence is possessed by the people who are satisfied with themselves and possesses the values of determination, hard work and focus, they also have courage, fearlessness, and commitment.

How to improve self-confidence:

1.   Believe in yourself :

Make smart goals and commit to accomplish them. When you meet your Goals it increases your self-confidence many times.

2.   Be Happy, Motivate Yourself:

Don’t be unhappy with Failure but learn from it, because “Experience always comes from bad experience or failure “

3.   Always Think positively,:

Be polite in behaviour and start the day with a positive attitude .

4.   Nothing is impossible in this world –

The biggest enemy of self-confidence is the “fear” of failure in doing any task and if fear is to be removed, then try to perform the task in which makes your scared. – Darr ke aage jeet hai..

5.   Develop Good habits:

Tell the truth, be honest, do not smoke, get connected with nature, do good work, help the needy. Because such actions give you positive power and on the other hand, wrong actions and bad habits reduces our confidence.

6. Do the work in which you are interested and try to take your career in the same direction in which you are passionate.

7. Live in present, think positively, make good friends, befriend children, think about yourself.

Independence: –

Independence means independent thinking and self-reliance.

It is the fact that “Dependency is the biggest enemy of our happiness, thus the reason for the decrease of happiness in the present situation is dependency…

What people will say is the biggest disease (Sabse bada rog kya kahenge log)”: – Most of the people think many times before doing any work. What people will think or say about them and therefore

They are not able to take decisions in time and keep thinking only, and time comes out of our  hands like water. Such people later regret their decision. Therefore, do not think too much, and do what you think is right, because there will be hardly any work that will be liked by all people together.

Control your happiness : –

Currently happiness of most people depends on circumstances. Such people generally become happy under favorable conditions and sad in adverse situations.

For example, if a person’ get success in doing work then he becomes happy and unhappy if he fails.. Friends, be happy in every situation because it is in our hands to try, but the result or situation is not in our hands.

Whatever the situation may be favorable or unfavorable, we should react positively because it is in our hands to respond.

Be self-reliant: Friends, dependence is the end of happiness, so as far as possible reduce expectations from others, do your own work and self-reliance, should not be sad with the actions or thoughts of others because the thoughts or deeds of others are not under our control. |

“If you become unhappy because of things or circumstances that are not under your control, then the result is a waste of time and regretting the future” Live in Present: –

Friends, we get 70,000 to 90000 thoughts in a day and our success and failure depends on the quality of these thoughts. According to scientists, 70% to 90% of the time of most people goes into thinking of past, future and futile things.

The past gives us experience and will be helpful to plan for the future, but this does not mean that we spend all our time in thinking of past only ..

Friends, we should remain in the present always and make it the best because neither past nor future are under our control .

“If you want to be happy and be successful, then stop thinking about something we don’t have control over”

Hard work and focus:

Friends, some scholars have said that success can only be found in the dictionary before hard work. Hard work does not mean just physical work, but hard work can be both physical and mental. Experience says that mental hard work is more valuable than physical hard work.

Some people make the target too big but do not work hard and then keep changing their targets. Such people only keep planning without focus in the right direction.

With hard work and dedication, the most difficult task becomes easy. If the goal is to be attained, then the obstacles that have to be overcome and  you will have to work hard and try again and again.

“The only means of survival for unsuccessful people is that they change their goals in case of trouble.” There are some people who work hard but once they fail, they leave the work in the middle of frustration, so along with hard work, it is very important to have a commitment and determination.

“If a person is not able to succeed even after doing that task again, it means that his way of working is wrong and he needs to work hard in right direction..”

Practicality: –

Wherever a practical person goes, he fills the environment with happiness, such people are seen from the point of view of society. Such people behave with gentleness and smile and are always ready to help. Etiquette is the best beauty without which a person is limited only to himself and society gives him the award named “selfish”.

“When the number of your friends starts increasing, then understand that you have learned the magic of practicality.” A courteous person goes to any area and makes such friend, who is ready to die if he needs it.

Character is the foundation of practicality and a person without character can never become courtesy. Character is the shadow of a person and in society, a person is identified not by face but by character. Character is formed by moral values, education and habits.

The most important feature of practical people is that they are always ready to help others.

Vani has the power to dissolve the sweetness in the atmosphere and fill it with happiness or spark it by burning it. “Words can change the world”

Talking thoughtfully, saying more facts  in less words, not talking in vain, finding goodness, praising, listening and giving importance to others, being humble, accepting mistakes, etc. are some basic rules of conversation.

There is so much power in these five rules of life that they will change your life and will awaken the power to turn your dreams into reality.

 Finally remember this …”Help the needy, because you know tomorrow you need someone’s help”

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