# Essential Life Advice I Would Give #

Daily writing prompt
What’s the best advice you’d give to someone younger than you?

Hello dear friends,

I hope this Blog finds you in a cheerful mood.

Today’s writing prompt question is very interesting:

“What’s the best advice you’d give to someone younger than you?”

I smiled when I read this question. At first, I wondered, What advice can I possibly give to the younger generation?

But then I looked back at my own journey—the successes, failures, wrong decisions, relationships, disappointments, and countless small lessons that life quietly taught me.

Perhaps growing older does give us one advantage: we begin to understand what truly matters.

When we are young, we are always in a hurry.

We want to become successful quickly, earn more money, buy a house, build a career, travel the world, and achieve everything before we turn thirty.

But life is not a race.

“The trouble with the rat race is that even if you win, you’re still a rat.” — Lily Tomlin

My advice would be simple: slow down occasionally.

Enjoy your morning tea. Watch the sunrise. Talk to your parents. Spend time with friends. Laugh without checking your phone.

These ordinary moments often become the extraordinary memories of tomorrow.

Young people often think their bodies will always cooperate with them.

I understand that feeling. When we are young, health seems automatic. We stay awake late, eat carelessly, ignore exercise and postpone medical check-ups.

But eventually, the body sends the bill.

So start early.

Walk. Exercise. Sleep properly. Eat sensibly. Drink enough water. Give your mind some quiet time.

“Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.” — Jim Rohn

Money can sometimes be earned again. Lost time can never be recovered. And health, once seriously damaged, may not always be restored.

One of the biggest mistakes young people make is being frightened of making mistakes.

I would tell them: Please don’t confuse failure with defeat.

A failed attempt can teach you something that success never could.

You may stumble. You may choose the wrong career. You may trust the wrong person. You may start something and discover that it isn’t for you.

That’s okay.

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”

Learn the lesson, dust yourself off and move forward.

There is nothing wrong with wanting a comfortable life. Money is important. Career is important. Success is important.

But relationships are priceless.

One day, you may discover that the expensive things you collected don’t matter nearly as much as the people who sat beside you during difficult times.

Call your parents. Hug your children. Appreciate your spouse. Stay connected with old friends.

People are our real wealth.

Social media has made comparison almost unavoidable.

Someone is travelling abroad. Someone is buying a new car. Someone is getting promoted. Someone is building a successful business.

And suddenly, we wonder, “Why am I behind?”

But remember: you are comparing your ordinary life with somebody else’s carefully selected highlights.

Your journey is yours.

“Comparison is the thief of joy.” — Theodore Roosevelt

Walk at your own pace.

Never believe that education ends when you leave school or college.

Read books. Learn a language. Pick up a brush. Learn technology. Travel. Write. Ask questions.

Curiosity keeps the mind young.

Age may add years to your life, but learning adds life to your years.

My most important advice would be this: don’t be too hard on yourself.

You will make mistakes. You will sometimes disappoint yourself. You will have days when nothing seems to work.

Forgive yourself and begin again.

Life is not about creating a perfect story. It is about creating a meaningful one.

If I could sit with my younger self today, I wouldn’t give him a long lecture. I would simply say:

“Live fully. Love deeply. Take care of your health. Don’t fear failure. Value people. Keep learning—and remember to enjoy the journey.”

Because eventually, we discover that life was never waiting for us at some distant destination. Life was happening all along, in the little moments we were sometimes too busy to notice.

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14 replies

  1. You said all the right things that I needed to hear! Slow down, treasure people over things, forgive yourself, take care of your health, and so many other wonderful nuggets of wisdom! I am learning to appreciate each year as I age! I’ve started to let my grey hair show and embrace it as who I am becoming.

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  2. Yes, relationship is priceless. I’m happy when I have a peaceful relationship with the people around me. Beautiful thoughts, Verma.

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  3. Verma ji, this is absolutely beautiful. 🙏

    Reading your reflections felt like sitting with a wise elder over a cup of chai, listening to truths that only time and experience can teach. The way you’ve woven together simple yet profound lessons—slowing down, cherishing health, embracing failure, valuing people over possessions—is a gift to anyone who reads this.

    What touched me most was your honesty about the journey not being perfect, but meaningful. In a world that constantly pushes us to rush, compare, and achieve, your words are like a gentle hand on the shoulder saying, “Breathe. You’re doing better than you think.”

    The younger generation may not always listen (we know how stubborn we can be 😄), but I promise you—these seeds you’ve planted will stay. One day, when life teaches us the same lessons, we’ll remember your words and smile.

    Thank you for sharing your heart so generously. This isn’t just a writing prompt response—it’s wisdom passed down, and that’s priceless.

    Keep writing, keep inspiring. The world needs more Verma jis like you. 🌟

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    • Thank you so much for this incredibly thoughtful and generous comment. 🙏❤️ Your words touched my heart more deeply than I can express.

      The image of sitting together over a cup of chai and sharing the lessons that life has taught us is especially beautiful. Perhaps that is what writing is really about—not simply sharing words, but sharing a little piece of our journey with one another.

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  4. One piece of advice my parents gave me was not to wear white pants after Labor Day.

    You are a sharp dresser.

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    • Haha! 😄 That’s a wonderfully specific piece of parental wisdom! I suppose every generation has its own fashion commandments.

      As for being a sharp dresser, I’ll happily accept the compliment—but I’ll make sure to remember the golden rule: white pants after Labor Day… strictly at my own risk! 😂

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  5. Such a beautiful collection of life lessons Verma ji 🤍 I especially loved the reminder that life is not a race and that we should value people, health, and those simple everyday moments. We spend so much time chasing the next milestone that we sometimes forget to enjoy where we already are. 🌸🦋✨

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    • Thank you so much for your beautiful and thoughtful words. 🙏🤍 You have captured the heart of my message perfectly.

      It is so easy to become caught up in the race toward the next milestone that we forget to pause and appreciate the beautiful life already unfolding around us.

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  6. very nice .

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