Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful mood, sipping your favorite cup of tea while embracing the rhythm of life.
Today’s writing prompt sparked a delightful journey within me — “List the people you admire and look to for advice…” What a beautiful and thought-provoking question!
It reminded me how much wisdom we carry within us, gifted silently by those who’ve walked beside us — inspiring us with their resilience, words, and spirit.
As we tread through life’s winding paths, we often stumble, pause, and look around — hoping to find someone whose light can guide us.
For me, those guiding stars have come in many forms: mentors, authors, spiritual teachers, and even little children. Wisdom, I’ve come to realize, often arrives in the most unexpected guises.
Today, I would love to share the stories of those who have shaped my thinking, uplifted my spirit, and helped me evolve into who I am.
❤️My Mother – A Living Example of Simplicity and Strength
The first person who comes to my heart is my dear mother. She wasn’t a woman of many words, but her actions spoke volumes.
I admired her unwavering dedication to our family, her strength to hold us together after my father’s untimely passing, and her graceful approach to life’s adversities.
Despite the challenges, she never let bitterness touch her soul. She raised us with courage, discipline, and love — wrapped in silence and sacrifice.
Even today, when I feel lost, I close my eyes and wonder, “What would she do?” And somehow, the answer becomes clear.
Her simple wisdom — “Do your duty without expecting results” — echoes Krishna’s words from the Gita. Though she is no longer in this world, her teachings continue to illuminate mine.
❤️ Swami Vivekananda – The Fire of Inner Awakening
As a young man, I stumbled upon the inspiring words of Swami Vivekananda, and they ignited a fire in my soul. His thunderous call — “Arise, awake, and stop not till the goal is reached” — gave me purpose.
His teachings reminded me that we are not weak or broken; we are powerful, divine beings with infinite potential.
Whenever I find myself at life’s crossroads, I revisit his words. They help me rise again with renewed courage.
His philosophy bridges the physical and spiritual, offering a roadmap not just for survival, but for meaningful living.
❤️. My Granddaughter – Innocence, Curiosity & Pure Love
You may smile, but one of my greatest sources of inspiration is my little granddaughter. No, she doesn’t give me advice in the usual sense — but her innocent questions, spontaneous laughter, and curious mind remind me of life’s most precious truths.
She teaches me to live in the moment, to ask “why” without hesitation, and to forgive as easily as she giggles.
Her presence keeps my heart light and my spirit playful. In her, I see the future — pure, unburdened, and full of possibilities.
❤️ Artists & Writers – Souls Who Speak Through Creation
As a writer and a lover of painting, I find immense admiration for those who pour their emotions into their art.
Whether it’s the poetic melancholy of Gulzar Saab, the emotional vibrancy of Van Gogh, or the nostalgic simplicity of Ruskin Bond, these creators guide me — silently and deeply.
Whenever I feel creatively stuck, I turn to their work. Their expressions remind me that art is not about perfection; it is about authenticity.
Their voices urge me to keep creating, to keep telling stories, even when the world grows silent.
❤️Krishna – The Eternal Guide,
And then, there is Krishna — my spiritual companion. When the noise of the world becomes too loud and my mind restless, I turn to the Bhagavad Gita.
Krishna’s calm, wise voice speaks to me like an old friend: “Be firm in your purpose. Do your duty. Let go of the results.”
I don’t just revere Krishna as a deity — I see Him as a teacher, a life coach, and a symbol of balance in chaos. His timeless guidance helps me navigate both joy and sorrow with equal grace.
❤️The Treasure Chest of Wisdom
Life is not a solo journey. The people we admire — whether through memory, literature, art, or everyday life — become our silent advisors. Some offer spoken counsel; others influence us just by the way they live or create.
Writing this blog feels like penning a heartfelt thank-you letter to each of them. Their presence — past or present — has added meaning to my journey.
So, dear reader, who do you admire? Who whispers strength into your soul when you feel weary?
I invite you to reflect, to write your own list, and to treasure it. Because these are not just names — they are the mirrors that reflect your best self.
BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE
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What a beautiful, soul-stirring reflection,Verma ji! 🙏
Your words feel less like a blog post and more like a quiet conversation with the heart. The way you’ve woven together the wisdom of your mother, the fire of Swami Vivekananda, the innocence of your granddaughter, and the eternal guidance of Krishna — it’s nothing short of a spiritual tapestry.
I was especially moved by how you included your little granddaughter as a guide. It takes a wise soul to learn from a child’s laughter and curiosity. That alone speaks volumes about your humility and openness to life’s quiet teachers.
Your mother’s silent strength, Krishna’s balanced grace, and your own vulnerability in sharing this — they all remind us that wisdom isn’t about grand speeches. It’s found in how we live, love, and keep showing up.
Thank you for this gift of a post. You’ve not just listed your guides — you’ve invited every reader to recognize their own. And that,Verma ji, is the mark of a true writer and seeker.
Keep writing. Keep shining. 🕯️”
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Thank you so much for your deeply touching and generous words 🙏
I’m truly grateful that the post resonated with you in such a meaningful way.
You’ve understood its spirit so beautifully—these quiet influences really do shape who we become. Your reflection adds even more warmth and depth to it.
Heartfelt thanks for your encouragement 🌼
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Wonderful post with enlightening t
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Thank you so much! 😊
I truly appreciate your kind words—it means a lot that you found it enlightening. Grateful for your support and glad it resonated with you.
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Wonderful post with enlightening thoughts! It’ s so important to have people around us that worth our admiration! Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful words!
You’re absolutely right—having people around us who inspire and uplift makes such a difference. They quietly shape our perspective, encourage growth, and often bring out the best in us without us even realizing it.
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Beautiful blog. True confection the list of inspirer who directly or indirectly inspire you for your life. Nice blog. First inspirer in our life is mother who always inspires true sanskar of family.
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Thank you so much dear.
You’ve expressed something very true—our first and most lasting inspiration often comes from our mother. The values, or sanskar, she quietly instills shape not just how we see the world, but how we move through it. That kind of influence doesn’t fade; it stays with us in small decisions, in our way of thinking, even in how we treat others.
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very nice .
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Thank you so much.
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Verma ji, what a heartfelt and inspiring post! Thank you for sharing; it’s a gentle nudge to reflect on my own stars.
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Thank you so much for your kind words.
I really like how you phrased that—“a gentle nudge to reflect on my own stars.” We often look up searching for something distant, but those stars can also be the quiet lights within us… the values, memories, and small truths that guide us when things feel uncertain.
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A profound meditation on the invisible threads that connect us to greatness. By framing those we admire as **”silent advisors,”** you beautifully illustrate that mentorship transcends time and physical presence. It is a stirring reminder that our character is a mosaic of every soul that has ever inspired us to see the world a bit differently. Truly a sophisticated perspective on the art of living!
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Thank you—this is such a beautifully articulated reflection.
I’m really struck by how you described those we admire as “silent advisors.” It captures that quiet influence so perfectly… the way certain voices, even when distant or long gone, continue to shape our thinking and choices from within.
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This is a beautiful post. I’m just learning about Krishna and currently reading The Bhagavad Gita. I wish I had people that I could turn to and actually seek advice. But I don’t feel that I really do that much which is why I have always turned to books. Those are my teachers and nature. While I am learning about Krishna I feel Krishna and Jesus are very similar in their teachings. It’s very interesting.
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That’s a really honest and thoughtful reflection—thank you for sharing it.
There’s something deeply meaningful about turning to books and nature as your teachers. They don’t rush you, they don’t judge you—they just sit with you, quietly offering insight when you’re ready to receive it. In a way, that kind of learning can feel even more personal.
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