# The Unchanged Flame #

This poem reflects the quiet journey of self-reflection and personal growth. While we may try new perspectives, new thoughts, or even a new outward appearance, the core of who we are remains unchanged.

It explores the balance between transformation and authenticity, reminding us that true strength and identity lie within the steady flame of our inner selves.

# The Unchanged Flame #

I tried on a different morning today,
wore confidence like a fresh jacket,
walked a little straighter,
as if the road itself
might notice the effort.

People say change is necessary—
new thoughts,
new habits,
new ways of seeing the sky.

So I tried.

I rearranged my doubts,
swept the corners of hesitation,
opened the windows of my mind
to let unfamiliar winds pass through.

Yet somewhere inside,
a quiet voice remained—
steady as an old tree
that has watched many seasons
come and leave.

Someone asked me once,
Are you thoughtful?

Maybe…
when silence sits beside me
and questions bloom like night flowers.

Are you enthusiastic?

Yes—
because hope still runs in my veins
like a restless river.

Ready for action?

Always—
for waiting too long
teaches dreams to sleep.

Sometimes people call it weakness
when strength grows quiet.
But strength does not always roar.

Sometimes
it simply stands in the mirror,
meeting your eyes
without fear,
without apology.

And in that still moment
you understand—

Changing the path is easy,
changing the clothes is simple,
even thoughts can learn new directions.

But the soul—
that stubborn spark within—
remains what it was meant to be:

a small, unwavering flame
that refuses
to become anyone else.

(Vijay Verma)
www.retiredkalam.com



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6 replies

  1. This is such a beautifully introspective piece, Verma ji. The way you’ve woven the imagery of trying on confidence like a “fresh jacket” while that “old tree” of inner wisdom remains rooted is just stunning.

    What resonates most deeply is the realization that strength doesn’t always need to roar—sometimes it’s simply the courage to meet your own eyes in the mirror. That’s such a profound truth, so gently delivered.

    The closing metaphor of the “unwavering flame” refusing to become anyone else… it stays with the reader long after. Thank you for sharing this quiet wisdom with us. 🙏

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    • Thank you so much for your thoughtful and generous words. I’m truly glad the imagery and reflections resonated with you.

      Your understanding of the quiet strength behind the piece means a lot to me. I appreciate you reading it with such care and sharing your beautiful interpretation. 🙏

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  2. Vermavkvさん、おはようございます。いつも有難うございます🙇‍♂️
    この詩を最後まで読んでいて感動的な一説に出会いました😆
    「道を変えるのは簡単で、
    服を変えるのも簡単だ。
    思考さえも新しい方向を学ぶことができる。
    しかし魂――
    その頑固な火花は、
    本来あるべき姿であり続ける」
    確かにそうです。道を変えることは簡単にできます。服を変えることなとはさらに簡単にでき、日常の光景の一つにすぎません😉それぞれがもつ思考もまた、その気になれば変えられるものです😄ですか、魂は……
    日本には「三つ子の魂百まで」ということわざがあります。三歳の時期の魂は生涯変わることなく続くということです😄
    これは、どんなに意識しようと、頑張っても、努力をしたところで変わることがありません。人にとって、魂はこの世に命がある限り続くものなのです。変えることが出来ない、不思議な力をもっています😄
    それが良いのかもしれません。魂が不動のものであるということは、その人の人間性を示すものだからです。どのように偽ったところでその魂を変えることができないからです。なによりも、魂は人を見抜く唯一のものとも言えます😉

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    • Thank you very much for your thoughtful and heartfelt comment. I truly appreciate the time you took to read the poem so carefully and reflect on those lines. It means a lot to know that a particular passage resonated with you so deeply.

      I really enjoyed your explanation of the Japanese proverb about the soul remaining the same from childhood. It is a beautiful and meaningful way to express the idea that while many things in life can change—our paths, our thoughts, even our outward appearance—the essence of who we are remains constant. That quiet, enduring spark within us is perhaps what shapes our true character.

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  3. very nice .

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