Dear Teenage Self,
As I reflect on the journey of life, there are several pieces of advice I wish I had known during my teenage years.
While it’s impossible to turn back time, I hope that sharing these insights will guide today’s teenagers toward making wise decisions and embracing a fulfilling life.
Smart Use of Social Media:
In the age of technology, social media has become an integral part of our lives. However, it’s crucial to use it wisely. Remember that the online world is a reflection of your real-life persona.
Be mindful of the content you share, engage in positive interactions, and don’t let virtual reality overshadow the beauty of the present moment.
Simple Living, High Thinking:
Life doesn’t demand expensive gadgets or designer clothes. True fulfillment lies in meaningful relationships, personal growth, and contributing to something bigger.
Embrace simplicity, focus on what truly matters, and cultivate a mindset of high thinking. Material possessions may bring temporary joy, but lasting fulfillment comes from meaningful relationships, personal growth, and contributing positively to the world around you.
Cut Your Coat According to Your Cloth:
Being a Banker I learned how to set financial goals and how to achieve that. Yes, Financial responsibility is a skill that will serve you well throughout life. Learn to manage your resources wisely, avoid unnecessary debt, and live within your means.
This doesn’t mean sacrificing your dreams but rather being pragmatic about your choices and prioritizing long-term sustainability over short-term gratification.
Stop Wasting Valuable Time:
Time is a precious commodity that once spent, cannot be recovered. Avoid procrastination and invest your time in activities that align with your goals and values. Whether it’s pursuing hobbies, building skills, or nurturing relationships, make each moment count.
Be Health Conscious Because Health is Wealth:
Your well-being should be a top priority. Adopt a balanced lifestyle that includes regular exercise, a nutritious diet, and sufficient sleep. Building healthy habits now will contribute to a resilient and vibrant future.
Make a Smart Goal. Be Focused and Evaluate
From Time to Time: Set clear, achievable goals for yourself. Whether they are academic, personal, or professional, having a roadmap will keep you focused and motivated.
Regularly evaluate your progress, adjust your strategies if needed, and celebrate the small victories along the way.
Variety in Wardrobe:
While it’s important not to judge others based on appearances, taking care of your personal presentation can boost your confidence.
Experiment with different styles, express yourself through fashion and remember that feeling good about yourself on the outside can positively impact your inner self-esteem.
Focus on Studies:
Education is a powerful tool that opens doors to countless opportunities. Stay focused on your studies.
And don’t let external distractions deter you from your academic goals. Your future self will thank you for the foundation you lay today.
Friendships Matter:
True friendships are invaluable. Cherish the bonds you form with those who support and uplift you. The friends you make in the remedial math class may become lifelong companions.
Nurture these relationships, as they will be a source of strength and joy throughout your journey.
Embrace Confidence and Self-acceptance:
Confidence is attractive, and self-acceptance is liberating. Embrace your uniqueness, be proud of who you are, and recognize that your worth extends far beyond societal expectations.
Life is too short to be overly critical of yourself; focus on your strengths and be kind to the person you see in the mirror.
Dear teenage self, life is an intricate tapestry woven with experiences, choices, and relationships. By embracing these pieces of advice, I hope you can navigate the tumultuous teenage years with wisdom and resilience.
Remember, the journey is just as important as the destination, so savor every moment and build a future that reflects the best version of yourself.
BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE
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Verma ji, this is such a heartfelt and profound letter. The advice to ‘cut your coat according to your cloth’ and to embrace ‘simple living, high thinking’ really stood out to me. It’s timeless wisdom packaged beautifully. Thank you for sharing your reflections; they are a gift to the younger generation.🌷🤝
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Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words. I’m truly touched that the message resonated with you and that those simple yet timeless principles spoke to your heart. The wisdom of “cut your coat according to your cloth” and “simple living, high thinking” has guided generations, and I feel grateful if sharing these reflections can help pass that light forward.
Your appreciation means a great deal to me. Encouraging and connecting with thoughtful readers like you is itself a blessing. With warm regards and gratitude for your generous spirit. 🌷🤝
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very nice .
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Thank you so much.
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Verma ji, pure gold for a happy, focused life!
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Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m truly glad you found it meaningful and uplifting. If even a small part of these thoughts helps someone stay happy, focused, and hopeful, that’s more than enough reward for me. Wishing you the very same positivity and success on your journey ahead!
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I spent last night with many of my son’s friends who were half my age. They weren’t teenagers but close enough.
I enjoyed your company, and at 10 o’clock when smoking is permitted and bars in Berlin, they all lit a cigarette.
They were all having so much fun. The warnings on the cigarette packages are so unique. So I told them a story about how I want to be a model for cigarette package warnings.
Boy that’s about as passive aggressive as you can be. You would’ve guided me in the right direction I wasn’t there to lecture. I enjoyed their company.
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It sounds like you had quite an evening—good conversation, lively company, and a front-row seat to a scene that felt both entertaining and a little thought-provoking. I love that you let yourself enjoy their energy without turning the moment into a lecture. That takes real awareness and grace, especially when you’re the elder in the room.
Your joke about wanting to be a model for cigarette package warnings was actually pretty clever. Humor can be a gentle way of sharing perspective without sounding preachy, and it sounds like you struck that balance well. Sometimes a light remark plants more thought than a long speech ever could.
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All good suggestions, but, we all know that many young folk think they know better, until they start to experience repercussions from their choices. I think I was very lucky to be born when I was, long before the internet and social media came along. I think that was a much easier time for teens. I was also lucky to have some non relative adults around for examples of how to behave and move forward. We all can benefit from mentors in our lives. Have a great day. Allan
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