
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful mood. Today’s writing prompt—“What’s your favorite thing to cook?”—may sound simple at first glance, but the more I sat with it, the more revealing it became.
Our favorite dish is rarely just about taste. It is about memory, mood, identity, and the quiet joy of creating something nourishing with our own hands.
If I had to choose one thing without hesitation, it would be a slow-cooked, soulful pot of food—the kind that simmers patiently, fills the house with warmth, and tastes even better the next day.
A rich stew, a fragrant curry, or a humble pot of dal bubbling gently on the stove. Not rushed. Not flashy. Just honest food with depth.
What makes this my favorite isn’t only the final dish—it’s the process. Slow cooking invites presence.
You chop vegetables with intention, listen to the soft sizzle as onions meet hot ghee, and breathe in aromas that feel almost therapeutic.

In a world obsessed with speed, cooking slowly feels like a quiet, rebellious act of self-care.
There’s something deeply comforting about dishes like these. They remind us that food has always been more than fuel.
Across cultures and generations, slow-cooked meals have been a language of love. They’re made for families, for shared tables, for conversations that stretch long after the plates are empty.
Even when I cook only for myself, that sense of connection lingers. One pot can hold nostalgia, tradition, and belonging all at once.
For me, that pot is often dal.
Today, as I prepared it, I realized I wasn’t just using ingredients—I was stirring memories.
The aroma carried echoes of childhood afternoons, my mother moving effortlessly around the kitchen, laughter floating through the house.
Dal may be modest, but it is powerful. It has nourished generations, crossed borders, and adapted endlessly, all while remaining comfort in its purest form.
Another reason slow cooking is my favorite is its flexibility. These dishes are forgiving. You can adjust spices, swap ingredients, and trust your instincts.
No tomatoes? Add lemon. No fresh herbs? Dried ones will do. Cooking this way builds confidence. It reminds us that perfection isn’t the goal—feeling is.

Creativity plays a role too.
Every time I cook dal, it turns out a little different. Some days it gets extra garlic because life demands boldness.
Other days, more chili for energy, or a squeeze of lemon when the mood feels heavy.
I measure not in spoons, but in emotions—a little extra ghee if someone’s had a hard day, gentler spices when comfort is needed.
I once read a quote that stayed with me: “Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all.”
My dal follows that philosophy. Though simple, it is cooked with the same intention as a chef plating a fine meal. This is why certain recipes become favorites—they grow with us and carry our personal signature.
Over the years, I’ve shared this recipe many times. I’ve emailed it to friends living abroad, scribbled it on paper for a stranger on a train, and demonstrated it during community cooking sessions.
Passing it on feels like handing someone a small piece of my heart.
And I love how people adapt it—adding ginger, swapping ghee for olive oil, tossing in spinach. Recipes, like stories, evolve when shared.
There’s also practical joy in slow-cooked food. It stretches further, feeds more people, and reduces waste.
Leftovers transform into new meals. It’s economical, sustainable, and deeply satisfying—proof that good food doesn’t need to be complicated or expensive.

Cooking this way grounds me.
Most importantly, cooking this way grounds me. The rhythm of stirring, tasting, waiting—it’s almost meditative.
When life feels overwhelming, the kitchen becomes a sanctuary. Problems soften when your hands are busy and your heart is present.
So when I reflect on the question, “What’s your favorite thing to cook?” my answer goes beyond a single recipe. My favorite thing to cook is comfort itself—food that nourishes both body and soul, that invites patience, creativity, and connection.
And now, dear friends, I ask you: what is your favorite dish? Not just the recipe, but the memory it carries. The smell that pulls you home. The taste that tells your story.
Cook it today—not for an occasion, but for life itself. Because sometimes, the greatest treasures are found in the simplest bowls.
Happy cooking, and may your kitchens always be filled with warmth. 🍲✨

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very nice
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Thank you so much.
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What a beautiful text, my friend!
I totally agree that cooking goes far beyond the recipe; it’s about memories, care, and presence. You take us on a tour, describing dal as a hug in the form of food, and how every gesture in the kitchen becomes almost meditative.
It’s amazing how simple dishes can carry so much history, love, and connection. It reminded me of how certain smells and flavors from childhood always pull us back to special moments. Thank you for sharing this rich and inspiring reflection. I will certainly think more about the intention and care I put into my cooking! 😊👏🏻🍲✨🙏🏻
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Thank you, my friend. Your words feel like a quiet nod across the kitchen—one that says I see what you’re doing, and I feel it too.
I love how you called dal “a hug in the form of food.” That’s exactly it. Some dishes don’t try to impress; they simply hold us. They carry the weight of time, of hands that cooked before ours, of moments when care mattered more than perfection.
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Wonderful have a great time in cooking sir 🎸
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Thank you so much, dear.
Your appreciation mean a lot.
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Welcome 🙏
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Stay connected and stay happy.
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What a beautiful reflection, Verma ji. Your words didn’t just describe a recipe—they wove a tapestry of memory, meaning, and soul. Reading about your dal felt like being invited into your kitchen, warmed by the aroma of comfort and the quiet wisdom that simmers alongside it.
You’ve captured something universal yet deeply personal: that cooking, at its heart, is an act of love, memory, and gentle rebellion against a hurried world. The way you measure in emotions, not spoons, is a philosophy more of us need. Thank you for reminding us that the greatest nourishment often comes from the simplest pots, stirred with presence and shared with an open heart.
May your pot always bubble with stories, your home always smell of belonging, and your generous spirit continue to inspire others to cook not just for hunger, but for life itself. ✨🙏
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Thank you—truly. Your words reached me the way a familiar aroma reaches the heart before the mind. Reading your message felt like someone quietly pulling up a chair in the kitchen, not to critique the dish, but to share the warmth around it.
You understood exactly what I hoped to say—that food is never just food. It is memory, patience, inheritance, and a small act of resistance against rushing through life. When you spoke of measuring in emotions, not spoons, it felt like you were stirring the same pot, guided by the same instinct.
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I am not a good cook. My wife is a good cook so she does most of the cooking. I have always loved spare-ribs. My wife knows just how to cook them so that the meat falls off of the bones. In the summer I like salads with lots of tomatoes in them (I grow the tomatoes).
Thank you for the good post!
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Thank you so much! That sounds like a perfect balance—your wife bringing the magic to the kitchen, and you bringing the love (and those home-grown tomatoes 🍅). Spare ribs that fall off the bone are hard to beat, and summer salads always taste better when you’ve grown them yourself. I’m really glad the post resonated with you—thanks for sharing a little slice of your table with me.
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You’re welcome, and thank you for your thoughtful reply. My wife and I have always made a good team for sure. Homegrown veggies are much better, as you stated, when you have grown them yourself. I hope you have a great day!
God’s blessings…
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Thank you—that’s truly kind of you. It really shows when two people make a good team; that sense of partnership comes through so naturally in the way you talk about home, food, and shared effort. And yes, there’s something deeply satisfying about enjoying what you’ve grown with your own hands—it adds a special flavor no store can match.
Wishing you and your wife a wonderful day ahead. May it be filled with simple joys, good health, and God’s blessings. 🙏🌿
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You’re welcome, vermavkv, and thank you for your good reply.
I appreciate your kind words and wish you days ahead filled with simple joys and good health!
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Thank you so much—that’s truly kind of you.
I appreciate your warmth and generosity of spirit. Wishing you the same in return: days touched by simple joys, steady good health, and moments that feel quietly right. Take good care, my friend.
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You’re welcome, vermavkv, and thank you for this kind reply. Take care and God’s blessings…
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Thank you so much! I truly appreciate your kind words. Wishing you peace, joy, and God’s blessings as well. Take care!
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This is a truly soulful way to make a tasty treat!
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Thank you so much, Sir.
That means a lot to me. When something is made with care and intention, you can really feel it beyond the taste.
I’m glad that soul came through.
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Exactly! Cooking with love provides for the best dishes! Have a wonderfully creative and productive day!
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Yes, Sir—it really does.
When love goes into the pot, it shows up on the plate every time.
Thank you for the kind wishes, and I hope your day is filled with creativity, warmth, and a few delicious moments too. 🌿🍲
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Always a pleasure Sir! May you enjoy a beautifully blessed day!
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The pleasure is truly mine, Sir.
Thank you for the warm wishes—may your day be filled with calm moments, bright smiles, and quiet blessings as well. 🌿✨
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Thank you so much for such well-wishes! I truly appreciate our exchanges. It is certainly important to share knowledge and insights. All the best and a lovely evening to you Sir, and as always, if you are playing TT, “Go for it!” Win! All the best!
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Thank you, Sir.
Your words truly mean a lot to me as well.
I value our exchanges and the shared learning that comes with them. Wishing you a lovely evening and all the very best too.
And yes—if it’s TT time, I’ll go for it! Win or learn 😊
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Thank you so much Sir! I hope you were very successful in winning and learning from your TT matches!
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Thank you, Sir. 😊
I had a great time playing TT today.
I won all the fout matches,.
I hope your day is going wonderfully too!
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That is fantastic! Very glad to hear and very happy for you! My day is going great, thank you! I am still writing in the studio. All the best!
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Thank you so much, Sir.
That sounds wonderful—there’s something special about being in the flow in the studio.
I’m really glad your day is going well. Wishing you steady inspiration and a rewarding writing session. All the best to you too!
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Greetings my friend and thank you so much! I too wish you a wonderfully creative day filled with blessings and inspiration! All the best to you!
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Thank you, Sir.
kindly for such warm and generous wishes. They’re truly appreciated.
Wishing you a day rich with inspiration, gentle progress, and moments that uplift the spirit.
May creativity flow easily and blessings meet you at every turn. All the very best to you as well.
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Thank you so much Sir! I truly am grateful for your well-wishes and I too wish you a day of wonderful things! All the best to you!
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You’re most welcome, Sir.
Thank you for your kind words—they’re truly appreciated.
Wishing you a day filled with positive moments, gentle smiles, and beautiful progress in all you do.
All the very best to you as well. 🌿
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Thank you Sir for your well-wishes! I fully reciprocate wishing you all the best! And a continued winning streak at TT! 🏆
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This was so good! Slow food really does carry more than taste, especially dal and what a coincidence, it’s on my menu today!
I like how you spoke about cooking by feeling instead of measurements.
In a rushed world, letting something simmer quietly is its own kind of calm.
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That makes me so happy to read 😊
Dal has a way of doing that—showing up right when it’s needed.
There’s something grounding about cooking by instinct, trusting your senses instead of the clock or a measuring cup.
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Exactly 💯
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Absolutely! 💯 Sometimes the simplest agreement says it all. Wishing you a smooth, uplifting day ahead—may everything fall into place just right.
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Thank you ☺️ much needed!
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You’re very welcome 😊 I’m really glad it came at the right moment. Take a deep breath, be kind to yourself, and keep moving at your own steady pace. You’ve got this.
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I loved how cooking becomes a mirror for memories and comfort, not just a recipe. Made me think about the stories simmering in my own kitchen! 🍲✨
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That’s such a beautiful way to put it. Cooking really does hold memories the way stories do—quietly, patiently, waiting to be stirred again. I love that it made you think of your own kitchen and the moments living there. Those are the flavors that never fade. 🍲✨
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Verma ji, loved this heartfelt ode to slow-cooked dal—it’s not just food, it’s pure comfort wrapped in memories and love. Makes me crave a warm bowl right now.
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Thank you so much for that warm and generous response.
I’m really glad it resonated with you—slow-cooked dal has a way of carrying comfort, care, and quiet love in every spoonful. If it made you crave a bowl, then the feeling has already done its work. 😊
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Lovely share sir. Your words of cooking captured a personal meaning, that could warm anyone’s heart. Continue making memories as you cook. 🙂
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Thank you so much for your kind words—they truly mean a lot to me.
Cooking has a way of carrying stories, love, and memories all at once, and I’m grateful you felt that warmth in my words.
I’ll definitely keep stirring the pot and making moments worth remembering. Wishing you a beautiful day ahead 🙂
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Vijay ji You’ve written a lovely post — your storytelling bowl felt warm and rich with life, like sharing snapshots of moments worth remembering.
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Thank you so much for your kind and generous words.
I’m truly glad the post felt warm and alive to you—that’s exactly what I hoped to share.
Knowing it resonated and felt like moments worth remembering means a great deal.
I appreciate you taking the time to read and reflect.
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Thank you so much.
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