Have You Ever Performed on Stage or Given a Speech?

Hello dear friends

I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and reflective mood.

Today’s writing prompt invites us to revisit a unique chapter of our lives—one that many of us either cherish warmly or shy away from entirely
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“Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech?”

It sounds like a simple question, but behind it lies a world of experiences—nervous moments, unexpected applause, forgotten lines, personal victories, and transformative lessons.

Public speaking and stage performances are not just events; they are milestones that shape the person we grow into.

Let me share a journey close to my heart.

❤️An Unexpected Beginning

Though I’ve always been talkative in everyday life, the idea of addressing a crowd filled me with a different kind of fear. It was a strange contradiction—comfortable in conversation, but uneasy in the spotlight.

My first real encounter with public speaking happened unexpectedly during the inauguration of our new bank branch.

It was a significant occasion: a decorated hall, distinguished guests, enthusiastic staff, and the sharp, observant presence of our Managing Director.

I had not prepared to speak that day, yet destiny nudged me gently onto the stage.

As I held the microphone, my rehearsed lines evaporated. My heart raced, my hands trembled, and all I managed to say was,
“Respected Mr. MD… and other dignitaries.”

A shaky beginning, but a beginning nonetheless.

❤️The Turning Point

Just as panic began to grip me, something beautiful happened. The audience applauded. Their warm encouragement soothed the chaos within me.

With every clap, my breathing eased, my thoughts settled, and my voice found its rhythm.

Suddenly, the words flowed—not perfectly, not poetically, but sincerely. What had started as fear slowly transformed into confidence.

That moment became a defining memory—a reminder that sometimes, courage arrives halfway through the journey, not at the beginning.

It was the day I realized that the stage is not an enemy; it is a mirror reflecting strengths we didn’t know we had.

❤️Lessons From the Aftermath

Although I had spoken at smaller gatherings before, this inauguration felt like my true debut. Long after the event ended, its lessons remained with me.

I began to reflect on the nature of public speaking—why it intimidates us and how we can make peace with it.

I learned that preparation is not merely useful—it is essential. Over-preparation, in fact, became my safety net.

Interestingly, some of my friends even took acting lessons to improve their projection, articulation, and stage presence. Their transformation showed me how significantly performance techniques enhance speaking skills.

These insights stayed with me as I approached new beginnings later in life.

❤️A Different Kind of Stage

Post-retirement, I decided to explore something that had long fascinated me—becoming a YouTuber. This new digital stage felt different yet familiar.

The bright lights were replaced by a camera lens, and the applause by likes, comments, and appreciative messages.

Here, I wasn’t just speaking—I was expressing, creating, and sharing pieces of myself. What once felt intimidating became enjoyable.

The butterflies that troubled me on a physical stage were replaced with excitement and passion.

It made me realize that stages come in many forms. Some have spotlights and velvet curtains; others fit in the palm of your hand.

❤️Why This Prompt Matters

The question “Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech?” is far more than a reflection of past events—it is a reflection of personal evolution.

Public speaking teaches us:

• Courage – the willingness to step forward despite fear.
• Confidence – built one trembling word at a time.
• Connection – because audiences respond to authenticity.
• Growth – every mistake is a stepping stone.
• Expression – finding our voice and letting it be heard.

Every experience—good or bad—adds a chapter to our life’s story.

❤️The Stage Is Everywhere

Even if you have never stood under stage lights, remember that life gives us countless informal stages.
Speaking in team meetings, expressing opinions in family gatherings, narrating stories to friends—these too are performances in their own right.

We all have moments when we become speakers, performers, or storytellers without realizing it.

❤️ My Final Submission

Looking back, my journey from trembling on a stage to confidently addressing audiences—both live and digital—has been transformative.

Every stumble, every encouraging clap, every video upload, and every comment from my online community contributed to my growth.

Fear, once a hurdle, became a source of strength.

The most valuable lesson I learned?
Every moment of nervousness is simply an invitation to grow.

And so, friends, the journey continues. With every word spoken—on stage or online—I carry with me the memory of that first speech, and the quiet confidence it helped me discover.

BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE

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