
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful mood. Today’s writing prompt made me smile and pause for a moment of honest reflection: “What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can?”
It’s a simple question, but it touches upon something we all experience — that tug-of-war between what we should do and what we want to do.
Our routines define much of our lives, but within those daily patterns often lie a few tasks that we secretly wish we could fast-forward through.

Let’s be honest — no matter how disciplined or organized we are, there’s always a part of our day that feels more like an obligation than a joy.
For some, it’s the early morning alarm that breaks the peace of sleep. For others, it might be the endless string of emails, the post-dinner dishwashing, or even the act of exercising when the bed feels far too inviting.
For me, it’s checking my phone messages and emails first thing in the morning.
Now, that might sound surprising in a world that runs on instant communication. But I find that this small act — which should take just a few minutes — often sets the tone for the entire day.
The moment I open that glowing screen, I’m bombarded with notifications, deadlines, and reminders.
The calm of morning is instantly replaced by the urgency of digital life. It feels like skipping breakfast and diving straight into work before I’ve even said good morning to myself.
So yes, if there’s one part of my daily routine I’d gladly skip, it’s that early dive into the online whirlpool.
Why is it so hard to resist, though?
Because our routines are both comforting and confining. They give us structure, but they can also drain our spontaneity. Skipping a small part of it occasionally feels like reclaiming a sense of freedom.
When I deliberately avoid my phone for the first hour of the day, I feel more present — I hear the morning birds, enjoy my cup of tea, and feel connected to the world around me, not the one glowing behind a screen.

However, routines exist for a reason.
Yes, they keep us grounded and productive. Skipping too many parts of them can make life feel chaotic. So the art lies in balance — knowing when to skip something and why.
Sometimes, skipping a routine is an act of rebellion against monotony; other times, it’s an act of self-care.
For instance, skipping a workout once in a while might give your body the rest it truly needs. Ignoring the news for a day could protect your mental peace. Skipping that late-night scroll might gift you an extra hour of sleep.
Interestingly, psychologists often say that routines build discipline, but occasional breaks from them build resilience.

Sometimes, skipping a task intentionally is not Laziness
When we allow ourselves to skip a task intentionally — not out of laziness, but out of mindfulness — we remind ourselves that we’re not slaves to our schedules. We’re humans, capable of choosing what nourishes us each day.
I’ve noticed that when I skip that one part of my routine — the morning messages — my entire day unfolds differently. I read, I write, I think. My creativity flows better, my conversations are more meaningful, and my mind feels uncluttered.
It’s as if that single skipped habit opens up a small window of serenity in an otherwise busy day.
On a broader note, this question also invites us to reflect on what our routines reveal about us.

Skipping a task often highlights something deeper
The part we want to skip often highlights something deeper: perhaps fatigue, disinterest, or an unacknowledged stressor.
For someone avoiding morning exercise, it might not just be about tiredness — it could signal a need to find a form of movement that truly brings joy.
For another person who skips cooking, it might mean they’ve lost the pleasure of preparing food and need to reconnect with it creatively.
So maybe the question isn’t just what we skip, but why we feel the need to skip it. Is it boredom? Overwhelm? Or maybe a quiet signal that our routine needs reimagining?
After all, a life lived entirely on autopilot loses its color.
My Final Submission
Finally, I think it’s perfectly okay to have a part of your routine that you try to skip — it’s part of being human. What matters is whether you skip it mindlessly or mindfully.
If skipping something gives you a chance to breathe, reset, or refocus on what truly matters, then it’s not avoidance — it’s alignment.
So the next time you’re tempted to hit the snooze button, skip a chore, or delay a task, pause for a moment. Ask yourself: am I escaping responsibility, or am I seeking peace?
The answer to that question can turn even the smallest skipped moment into an act of self-awareness.
Because in the end, routines keep our lives structured — but knowing when to step outside them keeps our spirits alive.

BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE.
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very nice .
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Thank you so much.
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You kind of answered that inside out.
Your prompts always end up eventually being my prompts .
I do love your answers.
And lyrics from a different time.
But february made me shiver
With every paper I’d deliver
Bad news on the doorstep
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Very nice – Those lines carry such nostalgic weight — a perfect blend of innocence lost and the ache of memory. I love how you wove that lyric in; it fits so naturally with the sentiment.
And thank you — that’s one of the best compliments one could get, really. When ideas begin to echo and merge, it means the words are finding their rhythm together. ✨
February may make us shiver, but somehow, through the music and the writing, warmth always returns.
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This is a wonderful and insightful post! For me, I feel like I’m being lazy if I skip a part of my routine or fall off of it. I tend to just keep pushing and pushing until I mentally crash. Thank you for showing me that there is something deeper in my emotions and mentality that cause me to skip or overwork myself. I’m going to explore this area more. Thank you for your wisdom! Your words are so helpful for youths like me ❤ .
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Thank you so much for sharing that so honestly. 🌷
It takes real self-awareness to recognize that constant pushing can sometimes come from deeper emotional patterns, not just motivation. I’m really glad the post resonated with you. Remember — rest is not laziness, it’s part of balance and growth. 🌿
Be gentle with yourself as you explore this side of you; awareness itself is the first step toward healing. I’m so happy my words could offer some guidance — you’re already moving in such a thoughtful direction. ❤️✨
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What a beautifully articulated and profoundly insightful piece of writing Verma ji !! You’ve put into words a feeling so many of us experience but rarely pause to examine. The way you distinguish between “mindless escaping” and “mindful skipping” is a game-changer. It’s not just about routines; it’s a gentle lesson in self-awareness and reclaiming our own peace in a demanding world.
Thank you for this wonderful reminder that the smallest acts of intentional living can make the biggest difference. Truly thoughtful and inspiring🌷🤝
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Thank you so much for your deeply thoughtful and heartwarming words 🌷🙏.
I’m truly touched that you connected with the essence of the piece. Your reflection beautifully captures what I hoped to convey — that mindfulness in our choices, even the smallest ones, can bring profound calm and clarity to our lives.
It’s wonderful to know the message resonated so meaningfully with you. Your appreciation inspires me to keep writing with the same sincerity and purpose. 💫🌿
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Beautiful written 🥰
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Thank you so much! 🥰
I’m really glad you felt the warmth in it. Your kind words mean a lot —
they make writing and sharing reflections like these even more special. I truly appreciate your encouragement! 💫
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Love it all.
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I’m so glad you loved it! 😊
Your appreciation means a lot — it’s always wonderful to connect through words and shared imagination.
Thank you for taking the time to read and feel the heart of it. 💫
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I caught myself nodding through the whole thing, especially that bit about checking messages first thing in the morning!
Oh, completely guilty here too! It’s wild how that one tiny habit can hijack the calm before the day even begins.
I love how you turned something so ordinary into a reflection on balance and mindfulness.
It didn’t feel preachy, just real and comforting. The way you write makes me introspect without even realizing it. Such a relatable, beautifully human post. 💛
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Thank you so much.💛
I’m really glad it resonated with you. It’s funny how these little daily habits can quietly shape our whole day, isn’t it?
I love that you found it relatable and comforting—that was exactly what I hoped to convey.
Your words make me smile and inspire me to keep sharing these small reflections. 🌿
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