# Yes, Today is My Birthday #

Today is my birthday.

My birthday …. Simple words — yet how they echo through the corridors of memory. Once upon a time, this day was pure magic.

I can still see the shimmering decorations, the laughter of friends, the joyful tune of a birthday song sung with unrestrained glee. The world seemed brighter, kinder — wrapped in ribbons and innocence.

Back then, birthdays meant balloons and surprises.
Today, they mean reflection and gratitude. Somewhere between childhood and now, the meaning changed.

The candles grew fewer, but their light grew deeper. The noise faded, but the silence began to speak.

As the years went by, the day I once awaited eagerly became quieter — not empty, but thoughtful. I began to see it not as a celebration of getting older, but as a reminder that time is a sacred currency — spent, never saved.

Another year passes, filled with hard work, regrets tucked away in quiet corners, and dreams we promise to revisit “someday.

But perhaps, birthdays are not about counting what has passed — they’re about awakening to what still can be.

Here’s a little truth I hold close: my official birthday is June 4th, yet I feel my true birthday is November 2nd — today. There’s always been a delightful confusion about which one to celebrate.

Maybe that’s the universe’s gentle way of saying: you don’t need just one day to feel alive — every day you awaken to truth is your rebirth.

Not merely a date on the calendar, but a moment of awareness, a quiet renewal of spirit.

I have read somewhere that our birthday carries immense spiritual significance. It’s not just an annual ritual but a sacred reminder — that the cosmos once chose us.

It poured its grace into the fragile form of a human body and whispered, “Live. Learn. Love. Grow.”

Lighting candles on a cake is a sweet tradition, but the real candle, the one that matters most, burns within. Each year, I try to tend to that flame — to keep it glowing despite the winds of time and circumstance.

On this day, I offer gratitude — to the Divine for this gift of existence, for another year of lessons, for the chance to become a little wiser, a little more compassionate.

I give thanks for the people who have walked beside me — for their love, kindness, and even their silence. And to those I may have hurt or misunderstood, I send forgiveness — for them, and for myself.

As William Barclay so beautifully said, “There are two great days in a person’s life — the day we are born and the day we discover why.”

Perhaps birthdays are meant to bring us closer to that why. They nudge us to pause, to listen, to realign our journey with the quiet rhythm of the soul.

So today, I choose
not to count years, but blessings.
Not candles, but friendships.
Not the wrinkles of time, but the grace they carry.

Each sunrise, each act of kindness, each forgiving thought — they all form the true garland of life.

Yes, I am growing older. But more than that, I am growing deeper — into peace, into understanding, into light.

Today is my birthday — a day of remembrance, renewal, and resolve.
To live more consciously.
To forgive more freely.
To love more fully.

And above all, to keep my inner flame burning — bright enough to share its glow with others.

Because birthdays are not just about the passing of time.
They are about the timeless invitation —
to begin again..

Vijay Verma
www.retiredkalam.com


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  1. And a very happy Birthday to you Sir! May you enjoy many, many more with loved ones and friends that brighten your days and lighten your journey. May God bless.

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  2. Happy birthday sir..!
    Stay blessed with the best and have a fun-filled year ahead 🤝

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    • Thank you so much for your warm wishes! 🤝🎉
      Your kind words truly mean a lot. I’m grateful for your thoughtfulness and blessings — wishing you the same joy, success, and positivity throughout the year ahead! 😊✨

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  3. Happy Birthday Mama ji 💐🎁🎊🎉🥳💖

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    • Thank you so much, dear! 💐🎁🎉🥳
      Your love and warm wishes truly made my day special. Grateful for your affection and blessings — sending you lots of love and good wishes in return! 💖✨

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  4. Happy Birthday, Vijay 👍

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  5. Happy birthday Vijay. Have a wonderful day

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  6. Many Happy Returns of the day.
    Happy Birthday to you.
    Wishing you good health and happiness.
    May you be able to fulfill all your dreams and desires.
    God bless you abundantly.

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  8. My brother as well. We got an extra hour of your happy birthday here.

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  9. I like this: “I am growing deeper.”

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  10. Many happy returns of the day. Happy birthday, sir.

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  11. Happy Birthday

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  12. Wish you a very happy birthday, have great time.

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  13. Happy birthday Vijay. I hope you’ve had a wonderful day, time.e spent with your family

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    • Thank you so much for your warm wishes! 🌸 I truly appreciate your kind words and thoughtfulness. Yes, I had a wonderful day surrounded by love, laughter, and heartfelt moments with my family. Your message added an extra touch of joy to my celebration. Grateful for your good wishes and friendship! 🙏✨

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  14. Dear Verma Ji,

    Your reflection transforms an ordinary birthday into a moment of profound spiritual awakening.
    You have so beautifully turned celebration into contemplation, giving this day a sacred depth that few ever pause to feel.

    “Today is my birthday” , in your words, this is not a mere date on the calendar, but a moment of soul-renewal, a quiet resurrection of awareness.
    When you wrote, “The candles grew fewer, but their light grew deeper,” it felt like the essence of life itself years may pass, but the inner flame matures, glows steadier, and shines with wisdom.

    Your two birthdays June 4th and November 2nd beautifully symbolize the dual birth we all experience:
    one of the body, and another of consciousness.
    One marks our arrival into the world; the other, our awakening within it.

    And yes, “the real candle burns within.”
    That single line turns into a meditation , a reminder that every birthday invites us not to light candles outside, but to keep the inner lamp alive, unwavering amidst the winds of time.

    Your closing prayer “To live more consciously, to forgive more freely, to love more fully” reads like a vow of the soul. It is a mantra every seeker could carry as a guide for the year ahead.

    On this sacred day, I wish you not just a happy birthday,
    but a radiant renewal of being
    a year filled with awareness, peace, and the quiet joy of purpose.

    Many happy returns of this sacred awakening, Verma Ji.

    May your inner flame continue to shine steady, serene, and luminous lighting the path for many.

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    • Your message touched me deeply — more than words can truly express. You have reflected my thoughts with such grace and depth that it feels as though you looked directly into the quiet space of my heart.

      Your understanding of what I meant — the two birthdays, the outer celebration and the inner awakening — is so beautifully articulated. I am moved by how you perceived the essence behind the words, turning them into a reflection of your own light.

      “The real candle burns within” — yes, that is where all beginnings and renewals truly happen. And when a kindred soul like you recognizes that flame, it feels as though both lights glow brighter in shared warmth.

      Your blessing — “a radiant renewal of being” — is one of the most precious gifts I could receive. Thank you for honouring this day not with mere wishes, but with such soulful understanding and love.

      May the same awareness, peace, and inner radiance continue to fill your path too.
      With heartfelt gratitude and warmth,

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  15. Happy birthday, my friend! Cheers to a day of of remembrance, renewal, and resolve!

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    • Thank you so much, my friend! 🌸

      Your words beautifully capture the spirit of the day — remembrance, renewal, and resolve. I truly appreciate your warm wishes and thoughtful message.
      Here’s to embracing each new year with gratitude, wisdom, and hope. Cheers to life’s journey and the friendships that make it meaningful! 🕯️✨

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  16. Happy Birthday, Sir. Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, Sir! I hope your special day is filled with joy and wonderful moments. May this year bring you continued success and happiness in all your endeavours. It is a pleasure to celebrate this occasion with you. Enjoy every bit of your celebration today.

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    • Thank you so much for your kind wishes and warm words! 🌺
      I truly appreciate your thoughtfulness and the joy you’ve shared with me on this special day.
      Your message means a lot. Wishing you, too, happiness, good health, and continued success in all that you do.
      Let’s keep celebrating life’s beautiful moments with gratitude and positivity. 🌿✨

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  17. Happy Birthday Kind Soul. I truly enjoyed reading your post. It was profoundly insightful, and beautifully reflective. Enjoy the day and have a wonderful, healthy, happy and peaceful year ahead.

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    • Thank you so much for your beautiful words and heartfelt wishes! 🌸 Your message truly touched me. I’m grateful that my reflection resonated with you, and your kindness adds even more warmth to this special day. Wishing you, too, endless joy, good health, and moments of peace and inspiration ahead. 🌿✨

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  18. Happiest Birthday to you my friend how beautiful blessed you are!!🤗🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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  19. Happy Birthday!!! I hope you had a wonderful day with much love & laughter … and cake!

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  21. A Happy Belated Birthday to you! 🙂 😊🥳 I hope you had a wonderful with family and friends 🙂

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  22. Happy Birthday, Vijay. Wishing you many happy blessings.

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  23. I am a little late, but I hope you had a wonderful birthday, Mr. Verma!

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  24. Belated birthday wishes to you.

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