
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and curious mood! Today’s writing prompt—“What could you try for the first time?”—immediately sparked my imagination.
It’s a question that invites us to step beyond the familiar borders of routine and comfort.
Life, after all, is not meant to be lived in repetition; it’s meant to be experienced in all its colors, its vastness, and its endless possibilities.
When was the last time you did something for the first time? That simple act—tasting the unknown, learning something new, or embracing a challenge—can completely change the rhythm of your existence.
“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.” – Neale Donald Walsch

Because every beginning holds a spark of wonder.
There’s something truly enchanting about beginnings.
I still remember my first bicycle ride, my first job interview, my first love, and countless other “firsts” that shaped who I am today.
Each carried a unique mix of excitement and nervousness. That trembling edge—where fear meets curiosity—is where life truly begins.
Trying something new doesn’t always have to be grand or life-changing. Sometimes, it’s the simplest experiences that leave the deepest marks.
One of my favorite memories takes me back to my childhood—days that still bring a warm smile to my face.
Life back then was simple and pure. There were no backpacks weighing us down, no online classes to stress over, and no gadgets to distract us.
We played freely, laughed often, and learned naturally. Relationships were genuine, unfiltered by screens or social media. We were just a bunch of half-pant-wearing kids chasing joy in its purest form.

One particular day stands out as a shining “first.”
It was a lazy Sunday morning when a guest at my home gave me a few rupees as a blessing. For a child, that was no less than winning a lottery!
My friends and I—our little “mischief gang”—decided to celebrate by going to the market for some hot, crispy jalebis (sweet dish).
The moment we tasted those golden spirals dripping with syrup, it felt like heaven melting on our tongues.
As we were returning home, something caught our eyes—a small cycle repair shop that also rented out old bicycles to children like us.
We stopped instantly, our hearts racing with excitement. The shopkeeper, amused by our enthusiasm, agreed to rent one for an hour. We pooled our leftover coins and made the deal.
We decided that each of us would take turns riding it. The first friend went wobbling down the road but returned triumphantly. The second one managed well, too. Then came my turn.
I mounted the cycle nervously, my hands trembling as I held the handlebar. The first few meters felt magical—the thrill of motion, the wind brushing past, the feeling of freedom. But before I could fully enjoy it, adventure struck!
As I turned a narrow corner, I saw a laborer carrying a heavy sack on his head. I tried ringing the bell, but it was broken. I panicked, lost control, and bang!—the cycle hit him from behind.
The sack fell, the man stumbled, and my heart nearly stopped. Without waiting to face his anger, I pedaled as fast as I could and vanished from the scene.
When I reached my friends, breathless and guilty, I didn’t say a word. We quietly continued our cycling turns as if nothing had happened.

That was a sense of humor 😂😂
My friend Shyamlal was next. Cheerful and unaware of what I had done, he rode off in the same direction.
Fate, however, had a sense of humor that day. The laborer, still cleaning his clothes by a nearby hand pump, spotted Shyamlal and—mistaking him for me—grabbed him in fury.
The poor fellow had no idea why he was being scolded and even slapped! After a brief struggle, he escaped and came running back to us, crying and confused.
I wanted to tell him the truth but couldn’t. Fear sealed my lips. So, I carried that secret for years.
Even now, whenever the memory resurfaces, I can’t help but laugh at the innocence, the fear, and the sheer madness of it all. It was my very first cycling experience—messy, funny, and unforgettable.
That incident taught me an important lesson: our “first times” don’t need to be perfect to be meaningful.
Whether it’s learning to ride a cycle, speaking a new language, cooking a new dish, or even trying to make peace with our fears—each first experience is a tiny leap of courage.
Life is full of opportunities waiting for us to say yes.
So, what could you try for the first time? Perhaps it’s painting a picture, learning a musical instrument, starting a garden, or simply striking up a conversation with someone new.
The beauty lies not in perfection, but in participation—in allowing yourself to begin.
Every first attempt brings its share of uncertainty, but it also brings discovery. It reminds us that we are still capable of wonder, still curious, still alive.
So, the next time life offers you a new experience, take it. Don’t wait to be ready—just begin. Because one day, you’ll look back and smile, realizing that your “first times” were not just moments of learning, but milestones of living.
✨ To live fully is to keep trying something for the first time.😂😂
– Vijay Verma
www.retiredkalam.com

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very nice .
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Thank you so much.
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“The beauty lies not in perfection, but in participation—in allowing yourself to begin.”
What a beautiful wrap up to a beautiful story..
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Thank you so much for your kind words. 🌸
I truly believe that life’s most meaningful moments come not from flawless achievements,
but from the courage to take that very first step.
I’m so glad the closing line resonated with you — it’s a gentle reminder to keep beginning, no matter where we are in life. ✨
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Beautiful said and so true.🌻🌻💕💕
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Thank you so much for your lovely words! 🌸💖
I truly appreciate your warmth and kindness. It’s always wonderful to connect with someone who feels the message just as deeply. 🌻✨
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That’s a beautiful gift for us all who share here, I’m so appreciative as well.
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Thank you so much! 🌺
It truly means a lot to share these moments and thoughts together. The beauty of this space lies in the warmth, understanding, and inspiration we all exchange.
I’m equally grateful for your presence and kind words. 💖✨
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🙏🙏
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Good evening.
How is your day ?
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Full with learning and now grandkids ..how about you?
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That’s wonderful to hear! 😊
Life truly comes full circle when it’s filled with learning and the joy of grandkids — they must bring so much laughter and love into your days.
I’m doing well too, staying busy with writing, creating, and learning new things along the way. It’s amazing how every stage of life brings its own kind of magic, isn’t it? ✨
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It sure does.. I really love this stage of life, especially when I’m not trying to hurry it and enjoying the creativity that just keep flowing. Enjoy every moment and your beautiful creative blessing you give to all of us.
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Absolutely! 🌷
It sounds like you’re embracing this stage of life with such grace and joy.
Taking the time to savor each moment and letting creativity flow naturally is truly a gift.
Thank you for your kind words—they mean a lot! May we all continue to cherish these moments and share our little blessings with the world. ✨💛
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🙏🙏🙏
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I too have a few like that, where I did exactly the wrong thing and learned a lot about ‘right’ from it.
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That’s such a relatable thought.😊
Sometimes our best lessons come wrapped in those “wrong” moments.
They shape our understanding and help us grow in ways that success alone never could.
Grateful you shared that insight—it’s a gentle reminder that every mistake has its own quiet wisdom. 🌿
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Hahah! What a lovely story. I can just feel the joy through your words. I am currently in a “first time” moment in my life. It’s my first year of college and it has been quite and adventure. I feel like every day is my first time! My first 4am sleepover, my first concert with friends, my first college sports games–it’s been wonderful :).
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Thank you! so much.😊I’m so glad you enjoyed the story.
Wow, it sounds like your first year of college is full of exciting “firsts”! 🎉 Those early mornings, concerts, and sports games are the moments that stay with you forever.
Treasure every experience—they’re all little adventures shaping your journey. 🌟
Keep embracing each first with the same joy and curiosity!
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And sometimes, that first time is our only opportunity. You write great posts, Vijay. You offer information and reasoning.
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful words! 🌸
You’re absolutely right—sometimes a “first time” comes only once, and that’s what makes it so precious.
I truly appreciate your kind encouragement.
It inspires me to keep writing and sharing reflections that connect with wonderful readers like you. 🙏✨
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