# Shifting Our Views is True Wisdom ?

Daily writing prompt
What’s a topic or issue about which you’ve changed your mind?

Hello dear friends,

I hope this piece finds everyone in good spirits and ready for a bit of honest self-reflection.

Today’s prompt asks an intriguing question: “What’s a topic or issue about which you’ve changed your mind?”

At first glance, this may sound simple, but the truth is, it touches something profoundly human—our capacity for growth and transformation, our willingness to take in fresh ideas and let go of old habits.

In my younger years, success felt like a list of accomplishments—a secure job, recognition, financial stability, and the admiration of others. I measured success by the medals one could show the world.

Looking back, those early beliefs shaped my decisions and my admiration for people with status and power.

But life, as it does, taught me another story. I watched those with outward success struggle behind closed doors—exhausted, lonely, or unfulfilled.

Meanwhile, I began noticing the quiet joy and inner peace radiating from teachers, artists, caregivers, and small business owners—the very people who found meaning away from the spotlight.

Slowly, my view shifted.
What truly matters is walking a path that reflects authentic values, waking each day with integrity and contentment, not with the world’s applause but with your own sense of purpose.

I once believed strength meant unwavering certainty— knowing answers, standing firm, and guarding opinions against all challenge.

I admired those who appeared immovable. Yet reality is rarely so clear—life is full of complexity and paradox, constantly evolving.

I learned that rigid certainty can become a cage, blinding us to new vistas and to the richness of possibility.

Now, I see that it’s far wiser to be curious than certain—to question, to admit doubt, and to reconsider past opinions. This isn’t weakness—it’s a kind of deep intelligence.

As John Maynard Keynes put it: “When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?” Curiosity opens doors to discovery, while certainty too often closes them.

In matters of the heart, my early assumption was that relationships thrive on sameness — shared beliefs, interests, and ambitions.

I worried that differences could weaken relationships, but life showed me otherwise. The best connections often come from diversity, not sameness.

Empathy—understanding and respecting others’ experiences and viewpoints—became the key to building connections.

This change brought liberation. It led to friendships and conversations deeper than any before.

I realized that listening gently is more powerful than speaking forcefully, and understanding one another matters far more than winning an argument.

Growth is the heartbeat of a meaningful life. To never change opinions is to stagnate, to miss life’s evolving lessons.

Changing your mind is not a betrayal of your past—it is a celebration of your present self, evidence of learning and reflection.

So, when asked about issues I’ve changed my mind on, the real answer is: many..

From success and certainty to relationships—and perhaps even more in the future. The world around us prizes “being right,” but it’s openness to change that sows wisdom and kindness.

Let’s carry this forward: Never fear a change of mind. Embrace it. It means you’re still growing, still learning, still alive to new beauty and new truths.

BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE

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12 replies

  1. I agree with all that you have written. My husband is a teacher. He is a dental surgeon and worked in a teaching/ hospital institute till he retired in 2017. Even now his students come to see him when the come alumni meets and he is in contact with them on Facebook too 😊.

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    • Wow, that’s truly heartwarming!

      It speaks volumes about your husband’s dedication, kindness, and the positive impact he has had on his students. Even after retirement, maintaining those bonds shows the respect and admiration his students have for him.

      It’s inspiring to see how teachers and mentors continue to shape lives long after their formal roles have ended. 😊

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  2. What a beautifully articulated and deeply moving reflection. This isn’t just an essay about changing one’s mind; it’s a map of a soul’s journey toward wisdom. Thank you for sharing something so personal and profound.

    Your words resonate with a truth that so many of us feel but struggle to articulate. The shift you describe—from chasing the world’s applause to listening to your own inner compass—is the very essence of authentic living. It takes immense courage to question the definitions of success we’re handed in our youth, and even more to publicly honor the “quiet joy” found away from the spotlight.

    The section on moving from certainty to “creative curiosity” is particularly powerful. You’ve reframed what strength truly is, not as an impenetrable wall, but as a flowing river, able to adapt and change course with the landscape of new facts and experiences. The Keynes quote is the perfect anchor for this liberating idea.

    Most of all, your conclusion—that changing your mind is not a betrayal of your past but a celebration of your present—is a gift to anyone who has ever felt ashamed of growing. You’ve transformed the concept of “being wrong” into a testament of being alive, of being a student of life itself.

    This is more than a submission; it’s a manifesto for a life well-examined and a heart well-tended. It reminds us that our greatest accomplishments are not what we accumulate, but how we evolve. Thank you for this powerful reminder to never fear a change of heart, for it is the very pulse of growth.

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    • Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words.

      Reading your message felt like a conversation with someone who truly understands the journey of reflection and growth. I deeply appreciate how you captured the essence of what I was trying to express—especially the idea that evolving our thoughts is not a sign of weakness, but a celebration of life’s lessons.

      Your reflections add an extra layer of meaning and encouragement, and I’m grateful for your generosity in sharing them. Truly, it’s exchanges like this that make writing and reflecting so rewarding.

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  3. Great perspective and I really like this quote: “Changing your mind is not a betrayal of your past—it is a celebration of your present self, evidence of learning and reflection.” Excellent!

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