
A positive attitude weighs nothing, but it carries you through everything.
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and contemplative mood. Today’s writing prompt struck a deep chord within me: “What is the most important thing to carry with you all the time?” A simple question, yet layered with profound meaning.
At first glance, one might say, “My phone, of course!” In this digital age, a phone does seem like our lifeline—our camera, our map, our calendar, even our connection to the world.
Some might say, “Wallet and ID,” or “Medication,” especially for someone like me who has lived with thyroid issues for years.
But when I sat with this question for a while, letting it simmer like a cup of masala chai, the answer unfolded gently before me—not in the form of an object, but a virtue.
The most important thing to carry with you at all times is: a positive attitude.
Yes, not something you can fit into your pocket or sling over your shoulder—but something you can wear in your heart, and it will change the course of your day, and perhaps your life.

“What you carry in your heart matters more than what’s in your pocket.
The Invisible Armor
A positive attitude is not about blind optimism or pretending that everything is perfect. Rather, it is the quiet strength that tells you, “No matter what happens, I will find a way to learn, to heal, to rise.”
It is your invisible armor in a world that can sometimes be harsh, chaotic, or unpredictable.
When you carry a positive attitude with you, even mundane days bloom with quiet joy. You begin to see opportunities in challenges, lessons in failures, and growth in discomfort.
I remember a time just after retirement when I felt lost, unanchored. For years, my life had been defined by meetings, deadlines, and figures in spreadsheets. And then one day, it all stopped.
At first, I carried a sense of purposelessness with me everywhere—like an unwanted shadow.
But then, slowly, I began carrying a notebook instead—scribbling thoughts, poems, and reflections. As my attitude shifted, so did my world.
That small habit led to the creation of this blog, Retired Kalam, and now every day feels like a new chapter of life.

Stories from Everyday Life
Let me share a short anecdote. A few months ago, I was traveling by train to visit my granddaughter. The journey was long and, as Indian railways sometimes go, delayed.
A few passengers were growing restless and began complaining. But then an old man seated across from me, smiling despite the heat, began singing softly—old Bollywood classics that melted the irritation around us.
When I asked him later how he stayed so cheerful, he said, “Beta, I always carry two things with me—my voice and my joy. Both are light to carry and heavy with blessings.”
That stayed with me.

Why It Matters
So why is a positive attitude the most important thing to carry?
- It shapes your responses:
Life will hand us situations beyond our control. But how we respond—that is always our choice. A positive mindset gives us emotional intelligence and clarity. - It influences others:
Your attitude is contagious. One smile, one kind word, one laugh—these are ripples that can calm a turbulent sea. - It improves health:
Studies have shown that positivity boosts immunity, lowers stress, and contributes to long-term well-being. - It opens doors:
Whether it’s a job interview, a family reunion, or a random encounter on the street— a positive energy draws people in and builds trust.
A Reminder to Myself
Each morning now, before I pick up my pen, before I sip my green tea, I say to myself:
“Today, I will carry kindness in my words, hope in my thoughts, and grace in my actions.”
And I believe that this inner carrying is more important than any external item I might bring along.

Closing Thoughts
So dear friends, when you leave home tomorrow—by all means, carry your phone, your wallet, your keys. But also carry that smile. That patience. That unshakable belief that life is unfolding for your growth.
In the end, it’s not what’s in your bag, but what’s in your heart that defines your journey.
And the best part? A positive attitude doesn’t weigh a thing—but it makes the soul feel light.
What do you carry with you, always? Do share in the comments below. Let’s inspire each other to carry what truly matters.
Warm regards,
Vijay Verma
http://www.retiredkalam.com
“Carrying joy, one word at a time.”
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Same thoughts so nice sir!
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Thank you so much! 😊
I’m glad our thoughts resonate. It’s always a joy to connect with like-minded souls.
Looking forward to more such meaningful exchanges!
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Beautiful thoughts are in this blog.
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful words! 😊
I’m truly happy that the message of the blog touched you.
Your appreciation encourages me to keep sharing from the heart.
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very nice .
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Thank you so much.
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Dear Verma Ji
Excellent.. I love this love for life & living
It’s a rare pleasure to consistently enjoy your posts.
Thanks for liking my post Listening 5 🙏
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Thank you so much for your heartfelt words. 🌸
It brings me great joy to know that my love for life and living resonates with you. Your appreciation truly encourages me to keep expressing and sharing.
‘Listening 5’ was a thoughtful and inspiring post—I genuinely enjoyed it.
Looking forward to more of your beautiful creations!
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Positivity is hard to come nowadays, gen Z is more depressed than any generation. Stay positive, stay healthy…
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You’re absolutely right—positivity feels harder to come by in today’s fast-paced, digitally overwhelmed world. Generation Z faces unique pressures, from social media to uncertainty about the future.
Let’s continue to spread kindness, awareness, and hope. Every small gesture matters.
Stay strong, stay compassionate—together, we can create light in even the darkest spaces. 🌟🙏
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Good post, Vijay.
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Thank you so much for your kind words! 😊
I truly appreciate your support—it means a lot.
Looking forward to sharing more thoughts and stories with you.
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Java Bean: “Ayyy, are you sure it’s not treats? We think it might be treats …”
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Haha! That definitely sounds like classic Java Bean mischief! 😄
You can never be too sure when treats are involved — better check again… just in case! 🍪🐾
Give Java Bean a scratch behind the ears from me!
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A truly fantastic read. Your writing style is both engaging and informative.
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Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind words—it means a lot to know the piece felt both engaging and informative to you.
I’m grateful you took the time to read and share your thoughts.
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Great post! Really enjoyed reading this. Keep up the excellent work!
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Thank you so much.
I am grateful for your support.
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Thank you so much for your support.
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