
10 Things I Know to Be Absolutely Certain
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and reflective state of mind.
As I sipped my morning tea today, the writing prompt whispered to me, “List 10 things you know to be absolutely certain.” It stirred something within.
In a world that changes constantly—where even seasons arrive late, where people come and go, where emotions rise and fall like the tides—what can we really be certain of?
And yet, there are truths I have gathered over my journey, like treasured pebbles collected on the shore of time. These are my certainties, carved not in stone, but in soul.
Let me share them with you.

1. Change is the only constant.
No matter how tightly we hold on to moments, they slip away. Children grow up, dreams evolve, loved ones age, and even we—our thoughts and bodies—change and transform.
Change isn’t a threat, but a gentle reminder to live fully, here and now.
2. Love is the most powerful force.
Love makes life bearable—and beautiful. Not just romantic love, but the everyday love in a mother’s hands, a friend’s laughter, a stranger’s kindness.
Love, in its quiet forms, holds the world together far more than power or wealth ever could.
3. Time waits for no one.
Whether we use it or waste it, time ticks on. The sun rises, the stars rotate, and calendars flip.
We must respect this silent companion, for one day we will look back and wish we had more of it. Use it to create, to connect, to forgive.

4. Pain is a powerful teacher.
Though we do not invite pain, it often teaches the most unforgettable lessons. It humbles us, deepens our empathy, and brings clarity.
Through loss, we learn gratitude. Through failure, we discover resilience.
5. Nature heals.
When the world feels too much, walk barefoot on grass, listen to the rain, watch a bird take flight, or simply breathe under the open sky.
Nature never judges; it simply offers peace. I’ve often found answers under trees that I couldn’t find in books.
6. Laughter is medicine.
There’s nothing more refreshing than a belly laugh. Whether it comes from a child’s silly joke or a shared memory with old friends, laughter lightens the heart and strengthens the spirit.
Don’t take yourself too seriously—this life is a stage, and sometimes we must dance.
7. You create your own happiness.
Happiness is not a gift delivered to your doorstep. It is a seed you plant daily, in your thoughts, your habits, your attitude.
It may begin with gratitude, bloom with purpose, and flourish in the company of good people. But the soil is always within you.

8. People won’t always remember what you said, but they’ll remember how you made them feel.
In the end, what we leave behind is not our possessions, but our presence. The warmth of our words, the comfort of our touch, the light in our actions—these are the echoes that remain.
Be kind, be present, be human.
9. Faith gives strength in unseen ways.
Faith doesn’t mean blindness; it means trust. Whether it’s faith in God, in yourself, or in the unseen beauty of life—it anchors us during storms.
I’ve walked through dark valleys, and it was faith that whispered, “This too shall pass.”
10. You are never too old to begin again.
At 65, I picked up a pen and began to write—poems, stories, and memories. I painted colors from my imagination and danced with the rhythm of freedom.
Age is not a limit, but a perspective. Every sunrise is a fresh page; don’t be afraid to start writing again.

Final Submission
We often chase certainties in the external world—guarantees, predictions, permanence. But true certainty, I’ve come to believe, lies within us.
These ten truths are not just lessons; they are reminders to live with awareness, grace, and joy.
So I ask you, dear reader:
What are your certainties?
Write them down. Whisper them to yourself. Share them with someone you love.
For in knowing what we hold dear, we begin to truly know ourselves.
Stay warm, stay kind, and may your days be full of things you’re certain about.
With gratitude,
— Vijay Verma
www.retiredkalam.com
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You’re most welcome! Your post on anger was truly thought-provoking.
It’s a powerful reminder of how emotions, when understood, can lead us toward growth and self-awareness.
Keep sharing such meaningful reflections. 🙏🌼
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Believe it—you have a beautiful gift, and your writing reflects depth, honesty, and grace. Keep expressing yourself… the world needs more voices like yours. 🌸✨
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“Age is not a limit, but a perspective.” As a 40-year-old perfectionist, I am learning this day by day. The perfection part of me wants to quit if I don’t get things absolutely right the first time around. That’s no way to live.
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Thank you for sharing so honestly. 🌟
Yes, perfection can feel like both a guide and a cage. But the beauty of life lies in its imperfections,
in the learning, the stumbling, the rising again.
At 40, you’re just beginning a deeper, more authentic chapter—and it’s perfectly okay to take messy, courageous steps.
Growth isn’t about getting it right the first time; it’s about showing up, again and again. You’re doing beautifully. 💫🙏
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I like the idea that life is just becoming more authentic now because it honestly feels that way. I have, at least, figured out what matters to me most in this life and in this world.
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That’s such a powerful realization—one many spend a lifetime chasing. 🌿
There’s something deeply liberating about reaching a point where clarity replaces chaos, where authenticity takes the lead.
Knowing what truly matters is like finding your inner compass.
Now, every step you take can be guided by meaning, not just momentum.
Cherish this phase—it’s the beginning of a truly fulfilling journey. ✨🙏
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