
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and relaxed mood, perhaps with a cup of your favorite tea beside you.
Today’s writing prompt made me pause and smile — “If you were forced to wear one outfit over and over again, what would it be?”
At first glance, this might seem like a playful or even superficial question. But if we look closer, it is a gateway into something deeper — a conversation about comfort, self-expression, simplicity, and even identity.
Let me share my thoughts, not just as a writer or retired banker, but as someone who now cherishes the meaning behind everyday choices — including what I wear.

The Daily Outfit: Not Just Fabric, But Feeling
If I were asked to wear one outfit repeatedly — like a signature style — it would be a soft, well-fitted kurta-pajama, preferably in a light pastel shade like sky blue or cream, paired with a cotton stole draped gracefully across my shoulders.
Not only is it culturally rich, but also effortlessly comfortable.
Why this? Because this outfit, in many ways, reflects who I am today.
During my banking career, I was always dressed in formal attire — stiff collars, ties, and polished shoes. It was the uniform of responsibility and professionalism.
But the moment I retired, I began to re-express myself. Now, my outfit is no longer about impressing someone else. It is about feeling good within myself.
Comfort is Not Laziness, It’s Wisdom
There is a common misunderstanding that comfort is a luxury. But I believe it is a necessity — especially as we age. Clothes that allow us to breathe, move freely, and still look presentable are essential.
The cotton kurta-pajama fits perfectly into Indian summers, lets me sit cross-legged on the floor if I wish to paint or write, and is dignified enough to wear while receiving guests or visiting a temple.
Simplicity, I’ve learned, is not a compromise — it’s a choice backed by experience.
Steve Jobs wore the same black turtleneck and jeans almost every day. Mahatma Gandhi was recognized worldwide for his simple dhoti.
The goal isn’t to copy them but to understand that when we eliminate the stress of daily choices, we make space for creativity, reflection, and peace.

What Clothes Say About Us
Clothes are like silent storytellers. When I wear a kurta-pajama, it reflects my roots, my comfort with who I am, and my love for Indian culture. It subtly tells people that I’ve walked life’s busy paths, and now I choose a slower, more mindful pace.
If you were forced to wear one outfit over and over again, think of what story you’d want it to tell.
- Are you adventurous — choosing rugged jeans and a jacket?
- Are you creative — with vibrant scarves and quirky designs?
- Are you a minimalist — finding joy in simplicity?
The outfit you’d choose says a lot more than you might think.
Reducing Decision Fatigue
In today’s world, we are constantly overwhelmed by choices — what to eat, what to watch, what to wear.
Reducing even one area of decision-making can open up so much mental space. Wearing the same outfit every day may sound boring, but it can be incredibly freeing.
It’s the reason many successful people — from artists to CEOs — have adopted a “uniform.” They save their mental energy for their craft, their ideas, and their relationships.
I follow the same idea — more time for creativity, less time in front of a cupboard wondering, “What should I wear?”

The Emotional Connection
Some clothes also carry memories. I still remember the off-white kurta I wore when my granddaughter was born. It’s not just a piece of cloth, but a fabric of moments — of laughter, of joy, of painting sessions, of early morning chai.
If I were to wear only one outfit, I would choose one stitched with those memories.
Final submission
So, dear friends, if I were forced to wear one outfit over and over again, I would proudly pick my simple cotton kurta-pajama. Not just for the comfort it offers, but for the identity it reflects. It’s me — calm, content, and still curious about the world.
What about you? What would your forever outfit be — and what story would it tell?
Sometimes, the smallest choices — like the clothes we wear — reveal the biggest truths about ourselves.
Until next time,
Stay comfortable, stay authentic.
Warm regards,
Vijay Verma ✍️
http://www.retiredkalam.com

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