# How to Stop Wasting Time Daily #

Daily writing prompt
How do you waste the most time every day?

Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and thoughtful mood.

Today’s writing prompt stirred a question that many of us try to dodge or laugh away—How do you waste the most time every day?

It might seem simple at first, but beneath it lies a mirror reflecting our habits, distractions, and choices that shape the quality of our lives.

Let me take you on a journey through this curious inquiry—one that may feel personal, universal, and even transformational.

Time is perhaps the only asset distributed equally among the rich and the poor, the young and the old—24 hours a day, no more, no less. Yet, how we use (or misuse) those hours defines the richness of our lives.

Wasting time is something we all do—unintentionally or habitually. But have we paused to ask: Where exactly does our time leak?

For me, and perhaps for many of you, the biggest time-waster is mindless scrolling on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube Shorts, or news apps. I often tell myself, “Just five minutes,” and then—poof!—forty minutes have slipped away.

Social media is designed to grab your attention and keep it. Algorithms feed you what you want, but rarely what you need.

The dopamine hits are addictive, and before you know it, you’re not consuming content—you’re being consumed by it.

Another major time-waster is overthinking—playing out imaginary scenarios in our heads, worrying about things we can’t control, or revisiting conversations we had years ago.

Our minds often become a battleground of “what ifs” and “should haves.”

What we forget is that thinking isn’t doing. Action changes our lives—not endless rumination. We lose precious moments pondering paths we never walk.

I used to pride myself on multitasking—writing a blog while checking messages, painting with one eye on the TV, or planning while attending a meeting. But research and experience tell a different story.

Multitasking is the art of doing many things poorly at once. It fragments focus and often results in mediocre outcomes. What feels like efficient use of time often ends in exhaustion and dissatisfaction.

Routine is good, but it becomes a trap when it becomes unconscious.

Think of how many times we repeat tasks out of habit, not necessity—checking email every hour, organizing our desk repeatedly, or watching the same news clips over and over.

We convince ourselves we’re “just staying updated,” but we’re actually stuck in a comfort loop that offers little progress.

The answer lies partly in avoidance. We often waste time when we’re avoiding something: an important task, a difficult emotion, or a fear of failure.

It’s easier to scroll, snooze, or snack than it is to confront discomfort.

Wasting time gives a false sense of escape. But every moment we spend escaping is a moment we miss experiencing.

Awareness is the first step toward transformation. Once we notice where time goes, we can begin to redirect it.

I’ve started using a journal to track my hours. It’s simple: I note down what I do each hour for a week.

The results were humbling—but also empowering. I discovered pockets of 15-30 minutes wasted throughout the day that, if redirected, could fuel a poem, a painting, or a peaceful walk.

Instead of scrolling when I feel low, I now try to pause and breathe—even for just two minutes. I remind myself that my attention is a powerful currency, and I must spend it wisely.

Let me be clear—not all unstructured time is wasted. Sometimes doing “nothing” is the best use of time: lying in the grass, sipping tea with a loved one, watching the rain.

Wasting time becomes harmful only when it’s unintentional and unsatisfying.

Rest is essential. But let it be restorative, not reactive. Let your breaks be a choice, not a default. A nap with purpose, a walk with wonder—these are beautiful ways to reclaim time meaningfully.

So instead of asking “How do I waste time every day?” perhaps the better question is:

“How can I use time today in a way that makes me feel alive, peaceful, and fulfilled?”

That question holds magic. Because the answer leads to presence. And presence is where the richness of life truly lives.

Dear friends, I invite you to reflect today. Where does your time go? What changes—big or small—can you make? Even a 10-minute shift can shape your day, your mood, and your creativity.

Time may fly, but you are the pilot.

Stay present. Stay intentional. And don’t forget to smile at the clock.

Warm regards,
Vijay Verma
www.retiredkalam.com



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8 replies

  1. very nice .

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  2. I read this yesterday but wanted to come back and write a comment and like :).

    I love how you emphasize the problems of our screen time. As someone who is younger and hangs around younger people, it is difficult for me to discuss the issues of screen time with peers. It is so normalized in my generation, and I wish it wasn’t. Screen use does steal our time away! We must not let it.

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    • Thank you so much for coming back to read and share your thoughtful comment! 😊

      You’ve expressed a very real and important truth—screen time has quietly become the biggest thief of our presence and peace, especially for younger generations where it’s deeply normalized. It takes courage and awareness to recognize this, and even more to speak about it when others may not be ready to listen.

      Your words give me hope. It shows that change begins with awareness—and you’re already walking that path. Let’s keep reminding ourselves and others that our time is precious, and real life happens outside the screen.

      Grateful for your support and reflections. Stay mindful and inspired always! 🌿💫

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  3. Wow!!

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    • Thank you so much! 😊
      Your “Wow!!” truly made my day. It means a lot to know the words resonated with you.
      Let’s keep sharing thoughts that inspire mindful living and meaningful conversations.
      Grateful for your presence here! 🙏✨

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  4. Dear Vijay, Thank you for this beautiful post! Your first two points on mindless scrolling and overthinking resonated so deeply, it took me a while to find the right words for this comment. I also have to add that your idea of journaling what you have been doing by the hour by intriguing and inspiring. I have to give this a try. Thank you so much, and may you continue do right by your time.

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    • Dear friend,

      Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kind and thoughtful words. It truly means a lot to know that the post resonated with you so deeply. 🙏

      Yes, mindless scrolling and overthinking are silent time-thieves we often overlook—I’m glad the journaling idea struck a chord with you. It’s a simple practice, but it reveals so much about how we live our days. I hope it brings you as much clarity and empowerment as it did for me.

      Wishing you many mindful, meaningful hours ahead—and may we both continue to honor the time we’re gifted with. 🌿✨

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