
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful mood.
Today’s writing prompt is rather fascinating, and it gently nudged me down memory lane. The question is simple, yet it stirs a pool of emotions: “Write about your first crush.”
As I sit here sipping my warm cup of green tea, memories of school days flood back—carefree laughter, chalkboard mischief, the sound of bicycle bells—and nestled within them lies a quiet corner of my heart where my first crush still resides.
A Chapter from My Youth
I was around 14, a lanky boy in school uniform, more interested in comic books than in studies, and completely clueless about the mysteries of the heart.
Life back then was simple—classes, friends, cricket in the afternoons, and sometimes, punishment for forgetting homework., Ha ha ha,
It was during one such ordinary school day that I first saw her.
She wasn’t the most popular girl in school. She didn’t need to be. There was a quiet charm about her—perhaps it was the way she tucked her hair behind her ears and had the spark in her eyes when she solved a tough math problem (a subject I dreaded, by the way). Her name was Anjali.
Anjali – A Name Etched in Memory
Anjali had this rare combination of gentleness and confidence. She would speak softly, but with clarity, always respectful, always smiling.
We were classmates, and our interaction was limited to group projects or the occasional “May I borrow your notebook?”
Yet, I found myself noticing everything—when she changed her hairstyle, when she wore a blue ribbon instead of her usual red, or when she laughed wholeheartedly at someone’s joke.
That innocent admiration was never about wanting to possess or impress. It was about wanting to be noticed by her, to be worthy of her attention, and perhaps, just perhaps, to share the bench during a group activity.

The Heart’s Silent Whispers
I never told her how I felt. Back then, we didn’t have the courage or even the vocabulary to express emotions.
Love, as we saw it, was what existed in films—grand gestures, songs under the rain, and dramatic declarations. Real life was more timid, more subtle.
My version of affection was staring a second longer than I should have, or feeling happy just seeing her smile.
I remember once, during a science exhibition, we were assigned to the same group. We spent hours preparing the model of a water cycle.
Those hours were golden for me. I memorized every moment—how she cut the cardboard, how she explained the condensation process, how she scolded me (playfully, of course) for misspelling “evaporation.”
That project didn’t win the top prize, but I had already won a treasure of memories.
Lessons from the First Crush
Looking back now, I realize how meaningful that innocent crush was. It taught me empathy, observation, and the power of silent admiration. It also taught me patience and the beauty of unspoken emotions.
There’s something magical about a first crush. It’s untouched by cynicism, untouched by expectations.
It isn’t about outcome—it’s about experience. It’s that flutter in the stomach, that awkwardness, the way your heart beats louder just because someone said your name.
As adults, we often complicate love with conditions and judgments. But our first crush? It is love in its purest form—a silent sonnet that lives in our heart forever, even when the person has long faded into the crowd of life.

A Smile in Retrospect
Years passed. School ended. We moved on to colleges, careers, and families. I don’t know where Anjali is today.
Perhaps she’s somewhere reading a blog too, sipping tea like I am. Perhaps she doesn’t even remember me. But that doesn’t matter. What matters is that I remember her—and in doing so, I remember the person I was.
The boy with dreams in his eyes, shyness in his heart, and a feeling he didn’t fully understand.
Why This Memory Matters
So why write about your first crush?
Because it brings us closer to our authentic selves. It reminds us of a time when we were tender, honest, and open to love without fear of being hurt.
In revisiting these moments, we don’t just revisit the people—we reconnect with the purity of emotion.
Dear friends, I invite you to revisit your own first crush—not with regret, but with gratitude. For they shaped your heart in ways you didn’t even realize.
They taught you about beauty, longing, and the poetry of silent admiration.
And that, in itself, is worth writing about.
With warm nostalgia,
–Vijay Verma
http://www.retiredkalam.com

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very nice .
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Thank you so much.
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Hopefully Anjali reads thjs! Congratulations on 1500 days of blogging.
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Thank you so much! 😊
Yes, who knows—maybe destiny will let Anjali stumble upon this blog someday! 😄
And your kind words mean a lot. Completing 1500 days of blogging has been a beautiful journey of self-discovery and connection.
I’m truly grateful for readers like you who make it all worthwhile. 🙏✨
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Very nice 🙂 and Interesting 🤔
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Thank you so much! 😊
I’m truly glad you found it interesting and enjoyable. First crushes have a special charm that stays with us forever, don’t they?
Sometimes, it’s the simplest memories that leave the deepest marks on our hearts. 💖
Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and stories too!
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Congratulations on 1500 days of blogging. Really Great 👍💐👏👏👏
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Very nicely portrayed Verma ji 👍🏻🌷🤝What a tender, nostalgic reflection! Your first crush—so pure in its quiet admiration—captures the magic of young love: unspoken, hopeful, and beautifully innocent. Anjali may have faded into the past, but the sweetness of that memory remains untouched by time.
*(A lovely ode to the heart’s first flutter.)* 💖
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Thank you so much for your heartfelt words and thoughtful reflection! 🌸🙏
You’ve beautifully captured the essence of what I tried to express—the quiet magic of young love, so innocent and genuine.
Yes, while Anjali may be a chapter from the past, the emotions tied to that memory remain ever fresh, like a gentle breeze from a forgotten spring.
I’m truly touched by your kind appreciation—it encourages me to keep writing from the heart. 💖🤝
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I love the phrase, “there was a quiet charm about her…” A better choice sometimes, than beauty alone. I just wrote a story on my site called ‘Finding Mary” about returning home to my old neighborhood after fifty years. In it, I tell of running into a childhood crush when we were both now adults and the wonder of it.
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! 😊
Yes, that “quiet charm” often lingers longer in memory than any outward beauty—it speaks to the soul in a more lasting way.
Your story “Finding Mary” sounds truly captivating! What a beautiful concept—returning to familiar streets and unexpectedly reconnecting with someone who once stirred your heart. It must’ve been a profound moment, filled with nostalgia and wonder. I’ll be sure to visit your site and read it—stories like these remind us of how beautifully time weaves our lives. 🌟🙏
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I hope you enjoy …https://nynkblog.com/2025/06/05/finding-mary/
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Yes, visited and subscribed.
I love reading your write up.
Keep writing.
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How kind Vermavkv. Thank you . I will 🙂
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You are welcome.
Stay happy and blessed.
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I read this yesterday and forgot to comment.
This post was sweet and nostalgic. Certain moments in life may have felt like growing pains, but as we get older, we see that these moments are tender memories that help us grow. This a wonderful post that serves as a reminder of that. 🖤🖤
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Thank you so much for coming back to share your thoughts—it truly means a lot! 🖤
You’re absolutely right—what once felt like growing pains often transforms into cherished memories with time.
They shape our hearts, deepen our understanding, and quietly guide our journey.
I’m so glad this post resonated with you in that way. Your words are both kind and insightful—
thank you again for reading and connecting. 🌸
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Beautiful 💕
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Thank you so much! 💕
I’m truly glad the post touched your heart.
Your kind words mean a lot and inspire me to keep sharing more reflections from the soul. 🌸✨
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You offer much to think about in this post, Vijay–who we are at the root and how we grow.
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Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughtful reflection. ❤️
Yes, I believe our early experiences—especially those tender, quiet moments—reveal so much about who we are at the core.
As we grow, these memories serve as gentle reminders of our roots, our innocence, and the emotional compass that still guides us.
I’m truly grateful that this post sparked such meaningful thought. 🙏✨
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Your wife doesn’t get jealous to read this post about your first crush?
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Haha! That’s a great question! 😄
Thankfully, my wife knows that Anjali was just a sweet chapter from my “prehistoric” school days—more like a gentle breeze from the past than a storm in the present!
She read the post, smiled, rolled her eyes, and said, “Bas ab, chai bana do!” 😄☕
So yes, I survived… but just barely! 😜
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Thank you so much.
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