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How do you know when it’s time to unplug? What do you do to make it happen?

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Hello, dear friends.

I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and reflective mood.

Today’s writing prompt caught my attention like a long-lost friend tapping me on the shoulder:
“How do you know when it’s time to unplug? What do you do to make it happen?”

A deceptively simple question — yet deeply profound in its implications, especially in today’s hyper-connected world.

🍁 When Life Asks You to Pause

Unplugging doesn’t always announce itself with fanfare. Often, it whispers.

It might start with waking up tired, even after a full night’s rest. Or a growing sense of irritability for no apparent reason.

You find yourself staring at your phone screen without any real purpose, scrolling endlessly like a ghost through a haunted feed. Creativity stalls.
Your thoughts become fragmented. You snap at your loved ones, then wonder why.

These are not just bad days.
They are signals — a kind of spiritual fatigue — that you’re running on empty.

I recall a recent afternoon when I sat down to write a poem and felt… hollow. The words wouldn’t come. My tea grew cold beside me, untouched.

That’s when I realized: it wasn’t writer’s block — it was soul block. My mind needed air. My heart needed silence. It was time to unplug.

📵 What Does It Mean to “Unplug”?

Unplugging is not just about turning off the Wi-Fi or stepping away from screens.
It’s a deliberate act of reclaiming your attention.

It’s about giving your mind space to breathe, your senses room to feel, and your soul a chance to stretch after being cramped in constant noise.

In essence, to unplug is to return to yourself.

🚦How Do You Know It’s Time?

Here are some telltale signs I’ve learned to recognize:

1. Mental Clutter: You can’t focus. Tasks feel overwhelming.
   
2. Emotional Fog: You’re anxious or irritable without cause.
   
3. Reduced Joy: Things that usually make you happy now feel like chores.
   
4. Disconnection: You’re present, but not truly there — even in a room full of loved ones.
   
5. Creativity Slump: Whether it’s painting, writing, or dancing — inspiration dries up.

If you recognize even two or three of these, it’s time to pause. Your body and mind are waving red flags.

🌸 My Personal Rituals to Unplug

Unplugging is not one-size-fits-all. Over the years, I’ve designed my own gentle rituals to reconnect with life beyond the digital glow.

🌿 1. The Walk of Awareness

Every evening, I step outside with no phone in my pocket. I observe the trees, the laughter of children, the drifting clouds.

The world — when observed mindfully — is the most vivid screenplay ever written.

🧘‍♂️ 2. Breath and Silence

Sometimes, I just sit. No goals. No music. Just silence. I close my eyes and focus on my breath — in and out, like waves kissing the shore. In this space, I often meet forgotten parts of myself.

🎨 3. Paint, Not Post

I pick up a brush and start painting — not for social media, not for feedback, but for joy. Colors help me say what words cannot. My inner child smiles when I create without expectations.

📚 4. Book in Hand, World on Hold

I revisit the classics or dive into a new novel. A physical book — with pages I can touch — is a powerful portal out of digital fatigue.

👨‍👩‍👧 5. Heartfelt Conversations

Unplugging also means reconnecting — with my partner, my granddaughter, my friends. We dance, we laugh, we share stories. These are real moments — unfiltered and unforgettable.

🌤️ Why It Matters

In a world that glorifies hustle and constant engagement, choosing to unplug is a quiet revolution.
It’s a way of telling yourself: “You are enough, even without the noise.”

When I return from such unplugged moments, I am lighter, kinder, more present. Ideas bloom. Words flow. Love feels fuller. It’s as though life hands me back a fresher version of myself.

💡 My final submission

We all carry a hidden compass — it nudges us when it’s time to rest, reflect, and reset. But we must listen.

So, dear friends, I encourage you to build your own ritual of unplugging. Start small. One hour a day. A weekend a month. Disconnect from the world to reconnect with your world.

And remember, sometimes the best way to find yourself…
is to log out.

With calmness and creativity,
Vijay. Verma
www.retiredkalam.com

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