# The Mentor Who Changed My Life #

Daily writing prompt
Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.

Hello dear friends,

I hope this blog finds you in good health and a cheerful spirit. Today’s writing prompt truly touched a chord within me:
“Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.”

As I sit by the window, sipping my favorite green tea and listening to the gentle rhythm of the rain,

I find myself reflecting on the many people I’ve met over the years. Some pass us by like passing clouds, while others leave an everlasting imprint on our hearts.

Today, I want to share the story of one such person — someone whose words changed the direction of my life.

Let me take you back to the beginning of my professional journey. I was a young man, freshly posted in Bank of India, at none other than Jhumri Telaiya — a name that still echoes humorously across social media platforms. But for me, it was the start of something very real.

I was new to the world of banking — unsure, hesitant, and struggling to mold myself into the routine. Numbers and financial statements weren’t my best friends.

Though I wore a smile at work, deep inside, I felt like a stranger in that world. Something inside me yearned for more — for meaning, for creativity, for self-expression.

And that’s when I met Mr. D. Ekambaram, my first branch manager.

At first, he appeared to be a typical senior officer — serious, meticulous, and deeply committed to the profession. But as the days passed, I began to see another side of him.

He had an extraordinary ability to see beyond formalities — to truly observe people. He cared, not just about our performance, but about our potential.

He wasn’t merely a manager; he was a mentor — someone who lit a quiet flame in those around him.

One day, after reviewing a report I had drafted, he called me into his office. My heart pounded — I thought I had made an error. But instead, he looked at me and said gently,
“Verma ji, your writing is different. It reads like a story, even when it’s about numbers. Have you ever thought about writing beyond banking?”

I was taken aback. No one had ever acknowledged that side of me — not even I. His words were more than a compliment. They were a revelation.

Encouraged by his sincerity, I began writing small reflections and shared them with him. He read each one with genuine interest, often adding thoughtful comments and always encouraging me to keep going.

One afternoon, he told me something I’ll never forget:
“Don’t bury your creativity under ledgers and balance sheets. Let it breathe. Even a banker can be a poet.”

Those words etched themselves into my heart. Though my entire banking career offered little space for artistic expression,

I never let go of that dream. I quietly nurtured my love for writing in stolen moments. And when I finally retired, I didn’t feel lost — I felt liberated. His words came back to me, like a compass pointing me home.

Today, I write poems, blogs, and create short videos — each one a piece of my soul, a celebration of my journey. And every time I hit “publish,” I send out a silent thank-you to Mr. Ekambaram.

He probably never knew how deeply he impacted me. But that’s the beauty of kindness — sometimes, we plant seeds in others without ever seeing them bloom.

Dear readers, if someone believes in you, hold that belief close. Let it water your hidden talents. And if you notice a spark in someone else, don’t stay silent — speak up. You might be the reason someone discovers their true calling.

Because life isn’t just about crossing milestones — it’s also about meeting people who become milestones.

Thank you, Mr. Ekambaram, for seeing in me what I couldn’t see in myself. Because of you, I now live a life rich with creativity, color, and purpose.

If by chance, this blog reaches you today, I hope it brings a smile and rekindles memories of those beautiful days in Jhumri Telaiya.

Dear friends,
I would love to hear your stories too. Who was that one person who made a lasting impact on your life? Let’s share, reflect, and inspire each other in the comments below.

Until next time, stay kind, stay curious, and keep believing in the quiet power of human connection.

With heartfelt gratitude,
– Vijay Verma
[retiredkalam.com]



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16 replies

  1. How beautiful to have a kind mentor like Ekambaram. Sometimes, someone pointed you in a beautiful direction. Keep shining, Vijay! Keep writing beautiful stories.

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    • Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement.
      Yes, having a mentor like Mr. Ekambaram was truly a blessing — his gentle guidance helped me discover a part of myself I didn’t even know existed.
      I’m deeply grateful for that turning point in my life.

      Your support means a lot, and it inspires me to keep writing and sharing more stories from the heart.
      Let’s continue to spread kindness and creativity together.

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  2. very nice .

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  3. So nice to read about Mr. Ekambaram’s impact on you!

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    • Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts!
      Yes, Mr. Ekambaram’s impact was truly special — sometimes, all it takes is one person to believe in you, and it can change your entire path.
      I am grateful every day for his words and guidance.

      Appreciate your kindness and support — it keeps me motivated to share more heartfelt stories.

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  4. Great mentors can truly change your life. This is beautiful, thanks for sharing!

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    • Thank you so much for your kind words!
      Yes, great mentors have a quiet yet powerful way of shaping our lives — often more than they realize. I’m truly grateful I had the chance to learn from one.

      Appreciate you taking the time to read and connect — it means a lot!

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    • Thank you for sharing your blog!
      I just visited and read your wonderful piece on Mr. Vincent (1947)—a truly insightful and heartfelt tribute to compassion and social reform.
      Your analysis beautifully captures the essence of the film and its impact.

      Keep up the great work! Looking forward to reading more of your critiques.
      Wishing you continued inspiration and success!

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    • Thank you so much for your thoughtful words.💕
      I’m truly glad the message resonated with you.
      It’s always heartening to know when something we share touches others in a meaningful way.
      Stay connected and inspired!

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  5. We go farther with a mentor who invests their time and talent in us. Important post, Vijay.

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    • Thank you so much for your thoughtful words! 🌟
      You’re absolutely right—a mentor’s guidance can truly shape our path and help us grow in ways we never imagined.
      I’m glad the post resonated with you! 🙏😊

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