#Why I Refuse to Visit Hopelessness “

Daily writing prompt
What place in the world do you never want to visit? Why?

Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful mood and wrapped in the warmth of positivity. Today’s writing prompt stirred a whirlwind of thoughts in my mind: “What place in the world do you never want to visit?”

At first, it seems like an easy enough question—just name a country or city that holds no interest.

But the more I thought about it, the deeper the meaning became. Let me take you along on this introspective journey.

Many would list war-torn regions, dangerous jungles, or the coldest places on Earth. But for me, the place I never want to visit isn’t on a map.

It’s not a destination that flights land in, or that Google Maps can pinpoint.
It is a place called “Hopelessness.”

Yes, you read that right. The one place I never want to visit in my life is the dreadful realm of despair, where dreams crumble, faith fades, and the colors of life seem muted.

It’s a dark alley where even the brightest soul feels lost, and where smiles become strangers.

Hopelessness doesn’t announce itself with signboards or invitations. It creeps in silently, often disguised as disappointment, failure, or rejection.

It begins with a broken dream, a missed opportunity, or a harsh word—and before we know it, it settles deep into our bones.

I’ve seen it. I’ve been close to its borders during my toughest days—during long battles with health issues, moments of creative block, or when life’s unpredictability tested my resilience.

But I never stepped fully into that territory. Why? Because I held on to hope like a lifeline, sometimes with trembling hands, but always with fierce belief.

Avoiding hopelessness isn’t about pretending everything is fine. It’s about building a mindset that refuses to be defeated. Here are a few lessons life has taught me:

  1. Connect with Joy Daily
    Whether it’s dancing in the rain, a steaming cup of mint tea, or the laughter of my granddaughter—these small joys are my armor against despair.
  2. Create and Express
    Through poetry, painting, or storytelling, we open our hearts. Creativity doesn’t just entertain—it heals.
  3. Talk It Out
    Silence is fertile ground for hopelessness. Conversations, even tearful ones, release the weight we carry.
  4. Spiritual Anchoring
    Believing in something greater than ourselves—be it Krishna, nature, or the universe—gives us the strength to hold on when everything else seems to fail.
  5. Gratitude Is a Compass
    No matter how tough the day, I try to end it by listing three things I’m grateful for. This practice rewires the brain to notice what’s working.

Alright, I’ll admit—there are a few physical places I wouldn’t be thrilled to visit. The freezing interiors of Siberia during peak winter, snake-infested forests of the Amazon, or the isolated deserts with nothing but mirages.

But even in those places, if I’m surrounded by hope, purpose, and love, — I could survive.
But hopelessness? No. That’s the one place that could break even the strongest soul.

My dear friends, we all have our moments of darkness. But never let yourself pack your bags and move into hopelessness. Life is unpredictable, yes. But it is also breathtakingly beautiful when seen through the lens of hope.

So the next time life pushes you toward the edge, remind yourself: This too shall pass. Keep dreaming, keep loving, and above all—keep hoping.

Because the most dangerous place in the world… is the one where hope is lost. And that, my friends, is the only place I never want to visit.

With hope in my heart and light in my soul,
Vijay Verma
www.retiredkalam.com



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24 replies

  1. 😍Great reply, well done for posting vermavky Good morning and happiness to you

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  2. very nice .

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    • Thank you so much! 😊
      I’m truly glad you enjoyed it. Your encouragement means a lot and keeps the inspiration flowing.
      Stay connected—more heartfelt stories and thoughts coming your way! ✍️🌟📚

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  3. Chameleon

    Hope Is Dead, Long Live Hope

    Ah yes, hopelessness—the sneaky, uninvited guest that shows up in sweatpants, eats all your snacks, and whispers, “Why bother?” while you’re brushing your teeth. It doesn’t knock, it just materializes one Tuesday afternoon when your coffee machine breaks and your creative muse has filed a restraining order.

    And yet here you are—standing firm, clutching hope like a toddler clings to a slightly damp teddy bear. Beautiful. Noble. Slightly exhausted.

    Your toolkit is solid: joy, art, conversation, spiritual anchoring, and the classic gratitude list (the spinach smoothie of the soul—hard to start, good for you anyway). I applaud this. Especially the part where you talk it out. Nothing says “I’m resisting despair” like trauma-sharing over chai.

    And spiritual anchoring? Yes please. Whether it’s Krishna, the cosmos, or the celestial authority of David Attenborough’s voice, we all need something bigger than us reminding us not to take ourselves too seriously.

    But most importantly—mint tea, dancing in the rain, and listing things you’re grateful for? Glorious. Even hopelessness gets confused when you’re grooving in your pajamas holding a biscuit in one hand and purpose in the other.

    I salute your wisdom. Just know that while we guard the gates of hope, I like to bring a bit of fun into the light.

    Chameleon.
    Email: Chameleon.15026052@gmail.com
    Website: http://chameleon15026052.wordpress.com

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    • Thank you so much for your visit.

      Yes, hopelessness really is that sneaky snack thief in sweatpants, isn’t it? And your imagery had me smiling wide—especially the part about the creative muse filing a restraining order. 😄 That hit too close to home, in the best possible way!

      Thank you for reminding me (and all of us) that even when hope seems like it’s on its last breath, there’s strength in holding on—with slightly damp teddy bears, gratitude smoothies, and spontaneous pajama dances. You’ve beautifully validated the absurd and sacred act of carrying on… biscuit in hand and all!

      And that bit about “trauma-sharing over chai”—I might just have to frame it on my wall. 😂

      I’m genuinely grateful for your comment, and I’m heading over to explore your blog soon. Let’s keep resisting despair, one joyful rebellion at a time.

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  4. It’s true to be happy, hopeful and disciplined.
    Nice thought 😊

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    • Absolutely! 😊
      Happiness, hope, and discipline together form a powerful trio—they guide us through life’s chaos with grace and strength.
      Thank you for your kind words!
      Let’s continue nurturing these qualities every day. 🌟🌿💖

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