My Ego Helped Me Grow the Most

Daily writing prompt

What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

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Dear friends,

Life is a beautiful tapestry woven with joys and sorrows, laughter and tears. Each day brings new experiences, shaping us into the individuals we become.

Today, I want to share a secret: my ego, my atma samman (self-respect), has been a surprising catalyst for my personal growth.

While some may view ego negatively, I’ve discovered that when bruised, it can fuel a powerful drive for self-improvement. My journey is a testament to this unexpected side of ego.

From Mediocre Student to Bank Officer:

I vividly recall being a mediocre student, struggling to focus. A relative commented that I should consider selling tea. Though hurtful, this remark ignited a fire within me.

Determined to prove them wrong, I doubled down on my studies, juggling hard work with academics. This dedication paid off, allowing me to crack a competitive exam and land a fulfilling career as a bank officer.

Embracing Creativity in Retirement:

After retirement, my love for social media, particularly Facebook and WhatsApp, connected me with colleagues and friends. However, when some colleagues started avoiding me online, and most hurtful when a close relative unfollowed me, it stung.

This, again, bruised my ego, but instead of succumbing to disappointment, I decided to channel it into creativity. I embarked on a journey of self-expression, taking up blog writing and painting, despite having no prior experience.

Blooming in the Face of Challenge:

The path wasn’t easy. With a background in finance, literature, and writing felt like a foreign land. Yet, with unwavering support from my friend Kishori Raman, I persevered.

Three years later, I’m actively blogging, writing articles, sharing stories, and even dabbling in poetry. My blog has garnered over 4.5 lakh views and 2000 followers, and I’m on a mission to reach 5000 posts in a row, proving to myself and the world that limitations can be overcome.

Gratitude for Unexpected Growth:

Looking back, I realize that the “hurt” I experienced wasn’t personal. It was simply a catalyst for personal growth. My ego, instead of hindering, pushed me to explore new avenues and discover hidden talents. I am, in a strange way, grateful to those who unknowingly played a role in my artistic awakening.

This experience has taught me a valuable lesson: growth often lies beyond our comfort zones. By embracing challenges and channeling our emotions constructively, we can unlock our true potential and surprise ourselves with the remarkable things we can achieve.

So, the next time someone hurts your ego, remember: that it can be a powerful force for positive change. Don’t let it break you; let it fuel your journey to becoming your best self.

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