# Enjoy Your Golden Year #

Someone truly said, “Retirement is the age when we think about all the negative aspects of our life .”

Just before retirement, everyone must have thought a lot about how they want to enjoy their golden years. But they never thought much about the psychological effect, retirement might have on them.

  • Retirement often means a loss of identity. whether you were identified as a banker or any professional.
    Yes, retirement can cause you to question, “who you are now, as you are no longer working.”
  • Other issues that accompany retirement—such as more time but less money. It can also tend to be difficult in adjusting.
  • Some retirees experience mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety, after they have stopped working. 
  • If you’re in the early stages of retirement and feeling somewhat lost, you’re not alone. Many retirees find the transition to be difficult, but we have to face it.

In the above situations, there are the following tips that might help us adjust to our retirement better, so we can feel fulfilled and happy during this phase of our life.

Adjust your Emotional Quotient :

There’s an emotional process that most people go through when adjusting to retirement. In the first years, there’s a feeling of freedom. It’s like you’re on a vacation that is going to last forever.

That sense of novelty wears off, and we will settle into a slower lifestyle. There might be a stage that involves a lot of things, such as …. ifs and buts, “Oh, no ! What did I do?” these thoughts, are followed by your anxiety and boredom.

You might even feel guilty for not enjoying retirement life as much as you think you should.

  • Suppressing your emotions can lead to unhealthy habits —like relying on alcohol or smoking.
  • Allow yourself to experience a wide range of emotions, whatever those emotions may be, and look for healthy ways to deal with those feelings.
  • You might find many hobbies like walking, reading, writing, talking to others, or yoga that may help you deal with your emotions.

Plan Your Days :

During the Pre-retirement era, you had your fixed routine life.  As the alarm goes off, shower, have breakfast, pack a lunch, and head out the door.

If you thrive with a schedule, you might establish a retirement routine as well that helps you plan your days efficiently. we should experiment with various activities and time slots to see how it makes you feel.

I have made a daily routine with fixed time slots such as for the newspaper enjoying a cup of coffee, regular time for exercise, social activities, and time for my hobbies and family meals.

Yes, we have to set wake-up times and routines that can help feeling more normal despite you are not going to work.

Set Small Goals:

Your pre-retirement life was measured in meeting milestones, such as making deadlines, finishing projects on time, or getting a promotion.

You can still focus on goals after you retire, though they might be a little different than they were before.
Working on goals can give you a sense of purpose and accomplishing new things can give you a sense of achievement.

Think about what milestones you might want to meet in the first month, six months, or one year that you have been retired, and write them down.

Do you want to Travel to Europe? Finish five books that you had been putting off? The sky’s the limit.

Grow Your Friendships:

There is a significant risk of becoming isolated during retirement. After 30 years of meeting friends through work and seeing them every day, it might not be as easy to stay away from those circles. 

You can restructure of your daily routine—ask one friend to meet you for lunch every Monday, and another neighbor friend to go on a morning walk in the park. create new friends as well to have coffee with in the afternoons.

If you and your spouse are friends with other couples, aim to invite them over for dinner at least once a month.

If you don’t feel like you have enough people to keep you socially active, take advantage of your extra time to make new friends.

Meet-up groups are also available for many hobbies and activities. Just enjoy it,

Consider Part-Time Job :

Who says that retirement from one job has to mean leaving the workforce entirely?
We have seen, a number of folks try out a less-stressful secondary career, perhaps one that’s a part-time job, after leaving their longtime industry.

Research finds that retirees who got a “bridge” job, another term for this type of work, are often in better health, both mentally and physically, and report higher levels of life satisfaction.

So look around and search the internet for work-from-home opportunities, that you might enjoy doing during retirement.

Create a New Budget:

Even the best savers might have to make some spending adjustments after retirement. In an ideal world, you have saved enough to last 20 to 30 years, but if you’re like most retirees,

there’s a good chance you might fall a bit short of that goal.

Figure out what you need in your new post-career life and what you don’t.

For example, that clothing budget that you always spent on business clothes can go out the window, but you might need to add in a category for membership dues for a variety of organizations that you wish to join.

Establish a budget that will help you see how much money you have for entertainment or fun. You might learn you need a part-time job so you can go on an annual vacation for a fun.

Schedule Volunteer Shifts:

Not willing to go back to the office grind? That is very much understood.
Yes, You might find the same benefits by volunteering on a regular basis.

The perks might be related to the expanded social ties that volunteering provides purpose a person can feel by committing to charitable causes.

It’s not only going to boost your psychological well-being, but it could improve your cardiovascular health and lower the risk of hypertension, too.

Give Yourself Flexibility :

You might think that you want to spend your retirement in fulfilling unfulfilled hobbies like painting, cooking, and reading. but then find out that all that time spent at home doesn’t fulfill the lifestyle you dreamed about.

After 30 years in the workplace, you finally have time to experiment with what you really want.

There are many different ways you can spend your time. And fortunately, there’s no need to figure it all out right away.

It will likely take a fair amount of experimenting to help you find just the right balance of how you want to spend your time.

After my retirement, I have increased my social activities and developed so many new hobbies, which keep me busy.

The joy of retirement is that you will have plenty of opportunities to experiment. It is up to you to design the type of day—and kind of life—that you want to live.

All the Best

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20 replies

  1. Great post with insight and suggestions for a new retiree – nicely done! I’m anticipating retiring in about a year and the advice in this post is greatly appreciated. Blessings & peace. -Virgil.

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  2. Yes I retired too. Have a wonderful New Year. Anita

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  3. I enjoyed your post. You have written in details what a retired person feels after retirement.

    You have taken up a great hobby. Sir.
    Blogging will help you in expressing your feelings.
    Enjoy the retirement life.

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  4. Great advice, great information and very well said. Retirement is the best time in life, as long as one plans well for it. All the best!

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  5. What a positive post, Vermavkv. There are so many opportunities, you just need to explore and find out which ones work for you. I know I’m still a few years from retirement (but my husband retired this year) but you are an inspiration of what we can do with the freedom of an end to work. We just need to craft a new life.

    I wonder if, for many, the problem might be not having external forces/people dictating what to do, that it’s easy to do nothing.

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  6. Yes, you are very correct. We have to manage our own show. There are so many opportunities, you just need to explore and find out which ones work for you.
    Life is beautiful and we should live it fullest.
    Thanks for sharing your feelings.
    All the best to your husband for their 2nd innings, play it well.

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