# Why You Shouldn’t Finish Every Book You Start..😊

Daily writing prompt
Have you ever regretted reading a book — which one and why?

Hello, dear friends! 😊

I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful mood.

Today’s writing prompt caught my attention:

“Have you ever regretted reading a book—which one and why?”

What an unusual question!

We normally talk about books with affection. We say that books are our best friends, our teachers, our companions, and sometimes even our escape from the noise of everyday life.

As someone who has spent a considerable part of his life reading and writing, I have always believed that every book has something to offer.

But then I paused.

Have I ever regretted reading a book?

Yes. And surprisingly, the answer has very little to do with the book itself.

Over the years, I have picked up books because of attractive titles, glowing recommendations, impressive covers, or enthusiastic reviews.

Sometimes the first few pages create great expectations.

The author seems to be taking us somewhere profound. We keep turning the pages, waiting for that one extraordinary insight—the sentence that will make us stop, close the book and say, “Wow! I had never thought about life this way.”

But occasionally, that moment never arrives.

The book keeps promising something extraordinary, while giving us the same idea repeatedly dressed in different words.

That is when I begin looking at the remaining pages rather than the words on the page!

And eventually comes the painful question:

“Why am I still reading this?” 😄

I remember reading one such book some years ago.

I had heard wonderful things about it, so I approached it with great expectations. The subject was interesting, the writing initially appeared promising, and I convinced myself that the book would eventually reveal its real treasure.

Fifty pages became a hundred.

A hundred became two hundred.

Still, I was waiting.

The book had one or two genuinely interesting ideas, but they were repeated so often that by the end I felt the author had written an entire book around a paragraph!

Looking back, I realise my mistake.

I was reading out of obligation rather than enjoyment.

I had somehow convinced myself that if I started a book, I must finish it.

Age has taught me otherwise.

When we are young, we sometimes think we have unlimited time.

We don’t.

As the years pass, we become increasingly aware that our time is perhaps our most precious possession.

Today, I have a different philosophy about reading.

If a book captures my imagination, I happily spend hours with it.

If it teaches me something, I underline it.

If it touches my emotions, I remember it.

If it challenges my thinking, I welcome it.

But if a book refuses to connect with me after giving it a fair chance, I am no longer afraid to close it.

That isn’t failure.

It is freedom.

“A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies.” — George R. R. Martin

Why waste one of those lives on a book that isn’t speaking to us?

Perhaps we are sometimes unfair to books.

A book that disappoints me might completely transform another reader.

Our reading choices depend on our age, experiences, interests and state of mind.

The book I couldn’t understand at thirty may make perfect sense at sixty.

The novel I found boring yesterday may become fascinating tomorrow.

Sometimes, therefore, we don’t dislike a book—we simply meet it at the wrong time.

That is an important distinction.

Interestingly, even a disappointing book can teach us something.

It teaches us to recognise good writing.

It teaches us the importance of editing.

It teaches us that an interesting idea cannot always carry an entire book.

And perhaps most importantly, it teaches us to become selective.

There are millions of books waiting for us.

Why spend precious hours forcing ourselves through something that brings neither joy nor insight?

As Stephen King reminds us:

“Books are a uniquely portable magic.”

But even magic comes in different forms. We simply have to find the kind that works for us.

There was a time when I felt guilty about abandoning a book.

Not anymore.

If a book doesn’t hold my attention after a reasonable attempt, I quietly put it aside.

Perhaps I will return to it someday.

Perhaps I won’t.

There is no shame in that.

Life itself is full of unfinished stories. Why should every book be different?

Sometimes, closing a book is not an admission of defeat; it is an act of good judgment.

So, have I ever regretted reading a book?

Yes.

But today I would phrase my answer differently:

I don’t regret reading the book. I regret the time I spent continuing it after I knew it wasn’t for me.

And perhaps that is one of the lessons that comes naturally with age.

We learn to choose our books more carefully.

We learn to choose our friends more carefully.

We learn to choose how we spend our mornings, our evenings—and eventually, our lives.

A good book can become a lifelong companion.

A great book can change the way we see the world.

And a disappointing book?

Well, it can at least teach us when to say:

“Thank you for your time. But I think I’ll move on to another story.” 📚☕😊

What about you?

Have you ever regretted reading a book?

Which book disappointed you, and what made you continue reading—or finally close it?

Perhaps your answer will introduce the rest of us to a book we should read… or save us from one we shouldn’t! 😄

Happy reading, dear friends. And remember—life is too short to finish every book you start.

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6 replies

  1. Dear Verma ji,

    What a beautifully written piece! 👏

    You’ve managed to capture something that every reader has felt but few have articulated so clearly—that quiet guilt of continuing with a book long after the connection has faded.

    Your observation about “reading out of obligation rather than enjoyment” struck a chord with me. How many of us have done exactly that? Clinging to a book because we should finish it, forgetting that reading is meant to be a conversation, not a duty.

    And that line—”I regret the time I spent continuing it after I knew it wasn’t for me”—is pure gold. It’s not just about books, is it? It’s about life. About knowing when to let go.

    Your gentle wisdom about meeting a book at the wrong time is such a kind perspective. It reminds us to be gracious—both to the book and to ourselves.

    Thank you for this reflective and warm essay. It felt like sitting across from a wise friend over a cup of chai, discussing life and literature.

    And yes—life is too short to finish every book. But it’s long enough to find the ones that truly matter.

    Keep writing, keep reading, and keep sharing your wonderful thoughts with us. 😊📚

    With warm regards,

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    • Thank you so much for this beautiful and thoughtful appreciation! 😊🙏 Your words have added another layer of meaning to my reflections.

      I completely agree—sometimes a book comes into our life at the wrong time, and sometimes we simply have to accept that it is not the right book for us. Knowing when to close a book is, in its own quiet way, a lesson in letting go.

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  2. very nice .

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