
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful, peaceful mood. Today’s writing prompt—“What could you do less of?”—felt surprisingly simple at first glance, almost like a casual question whispered in passing.
But as I sat with it, letting it settle a bit deeper, I realized how profound and transformative it can truly be.
We often talk about what we want more of in life—more time, more success, more health, more money, more peace.
But the question of what we want less of?
That one rarely gets invited to the table. And yet, it carries an incredible power, because sometimes a better life is not about addition… but subtraction.
So today, I write not only as an answer to the prompt but also as a quiet reminder to myself—and perhaps to you as well.

❤️1. Less Overthinking: The Mind’s Endless Traffic
If I could choose just one thing to do less of, it would be overthinking.
Not the healthy reflection that helps us learn or grow, but that endless internal traffic—doubt, replay, second-guessing, rehearsing conversations that never happen, worrying about outcomes that never occur.
Overthinking is like holding a glass of water—not heavy in the beginning, but exhausting if held for too long. Life becomes lighter when we agree to put the glass down for a moment.
What if we replaced analysis paralysis with gentle trust?
What if we allowed space for things to unfold instead of trying to control each branch of the future?
Doing less overthinking is not an act of laziness.
It is an act of wisdom.

❤️ 2. Less Saying ‘Yes’ When My Heart Says ‘No’
Many of us carry a lifetime habit of pleasing others.
We nod, agree, accept, commit—often at the cost of our own energy.
But peace arrives the moment we realize that “no” is not a negative word.
– It is a boundary.
– A self-respecting filter.
– A quiet decision that protects whatever is sacred within us.
Doing less of what drains us does not make us selfish.
It makes us sustainable.
Imagine living a life where half-hearted obligations are replaced by wholehearted choices.

❤️ 3. Less Comparing Myself to Others
In a world overflowing with curated perfection—fitness transformations, travel diaries, achievement posts, and endless success stories—comparison slips into our thoughts almost unnoticed.
But comparison is a thief:
Of joy, of confidence, of gratitude.
When we compare, we measure our behind-the-scenes with someone else’s highlight reel. We forget that each person walks a unique path, shaped by invisible challenges and private victories.
Doing less comparison opens the door to celebrating others without dimming ourselves.
And in that space, appreciation blossoms where insecurity once lived.

❤️ 4. Less Clutter—Externally and Internally
Clutter is not only physical; it is emotional, digital, relational, and mental.
From overpacked drawers to overcrowded to-do lists, from old resentments to unnecessary notifications, clutter steals our clarity.
What if we did less accumulating and more releasing?
Less hoarding and more simplifying?
Every time we remove what no longer serves us—an object, a habit, a fear—we make room for something more aligned, more peaceful, more authentic.
Minimalism isn’t about having less;
It’s about making space for what matters more.

❤️ 5. Less Rushing Through Life
We rush through meals, conversations, moments, even days.
Our schedule is packed; our pace is hurried.
But the truth is:
Most of the beauty in life happens in the in-between moments—when we pause long enough to notice.
Doing less rushing doesn’t mean doing less living.
It means living more mindfully.
It means noticing the morning sunlight, the way tea feels warm in the hands, the softness in a friend’s voice, the quiet happiness in simply being alive.

❤️ 6. Less Self-Judgment
If we spoke to others the way we speak to ourselves, many of us would be apologizing every day. Our inner voice can be harsh, impatient, unforgiving.
But self-criticism doesn’t make us better.
Self-compassion does.
Doing less self-judgment is an act of emotional freedom.
It allows us to grow in kindness rather than shame, in acceptance rather than fear.
❤️Yes, Subtraction as a Path to Peace
“What could you do less of?” is not a question about restriction.
It is a question about liberation.
When we peel away the unnecessary—overthinking, pleasing, comparing, rushing, cluttering, judging—we uncover something softer, truer, quieter:
Our authentic self.
Sometimes the real work of life is not to look for more, but to let go of what weighs us down.
So, dear friends, as you read this, perhaps pause for a moment and ask yourself gently:
What could you do less of—so you can live more fully, more deeply, more freely?
May we all choose subtraction where it brings peace.
May we grow lighter, not by adding… but by releasing.

BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE
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I always love that chair and your fantastic philosophical posts like this ❤️🌺
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Thank you so much for your warm words! ❤️🌺
I’m really glad the chair—and the thoughts that come with it—speak to you.
Your appreciation adds its own gentle light to every post, and I’m grateful for that.
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This writing reminds of the saying, less is more by Ludweg. I always want minimalism, too.
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Absolutely—“less is more” captures a kind of wisdom that grows on us with time.
Minimalism isn’t just about having fewer things; it’s about creating more space for clarity, peace, and authenticity. I’m really glad the writing reminded you of that thought.
Wanting minimalism is itself a beautiful beginning… the mind feels lighter, and life starts to breathe a little easier. 🌿✨
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Less overthinking! The first one nailed it for me.
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I’m so glad that line connected with you!
“Less overthinking” sounds simple, yet it’s one of the hardest habits to break.
If the first point struck a chord, it means your mind is already choosing clarity over chaos—and that’s a powerful first step.
Thank you for sharing your reflection! 🌿✨
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The commencement of your blog with the comparison of Overthinking as mind’s endless traffic actually conquered my heart. Each of the points you mentioned really need a deep insight into one’s life and a sack of experiences. So I bow down before your wisdom sir. Each and every blog of yours teaches us the ultimate secret of living a meaningful life. Specially your point-of-view on comparing one own self with others taught me not to get caught in the trap of highlighted reels because— “But comparison is a thief:
Of joy, of confidence, of gratitude.” The evidence of your profound wisdom reflects in your writings.
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Your words truly touched me, and I’m deeply humbled by your generosity.
If anything I write resonates with you or adds even a small moment of clarity to your day, then I consider that the real reward.
Overthinking, comparison, and the quiet battles of the mind—these are things we all face, just in different ways.
I simply try to share what life has taught me, and it means a great deal to know that those reflections find a home in your thoughts.
Thank you for seeing the intention behind the words and for offering such warm appreciation.
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Verma Ji
You have given six Golden Rules to live life peacefully.
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Thank you so much!
I’m glad the six Golden Rules resonated with you.
May they serve as gentle reminders to bring more peace, clarity, and balance into our everyday lives. 🌿✨
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What a beautifully written and deeply thoughtful reflection, Verma ji. 🤝 You have taken a simple prompt and transformed it into a profound meditation on living intentionally. The way you structured it—moving from the mind’s clutter to the heart’s freedom—feels like a gentle, guided journey inward.
Your words carry the warmth of genuine insight and the quiet power of lived experience. The idea of “subtraction as liberation” is truly powerful and so beautifully expressed. This isn’t just a list of advice; it feels like a compassionate letter, both to yourself and to anyone lucky enough to read it.
Thank you for this reminder that a richer life often begins with letting go. May your own path continue to grow lighter and your wisdom continue to inspire those around you. 🙏
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Thank you so much for your generous words. I’m truly humbled that my reflection resonated with you in this way. If it offered even a moment of clarity or calm,
I’m grateful. Your encouragement means a great deal and inspires me to keep writing with honesty and intention. 🙏
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If only I could overcome overthinking and the desire to fix every problem in my mind perhaps I would be more happier
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You’re already aware of the patterns in your mind, and that’s the first step toward finding peace. Overthinking and the urge to fix everything can feel heavy, but you don’t have to carry it all at once. Small moments of letting go, even for a few breaths, can bring more calm and happiness than we often realize. Be patient and kind to yourself—you’re learning, and that’s enough. 🌿✨
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Thank you so much 🙏
You’re a life saver
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You’re most welcome! 🙏
I’m really glad I could help — anytime you need support, I’m here.
Your kindness makes it a joy to assist. 🌟
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Absolutely less self judgment, then the same without ‘self’!
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Exactly! Less judgment in general often brings more clarity and peace. It’s amazing how much lighter things feel when we let go of unnecessary critique.
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very nice .
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Thank you so much.
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