# The Silent Thief of Time #

Daily writing prompt
What technology would you be better off without, why?

Hello dear friends,

I hope this blog reaches you in a cheerful and contemplative mood. Today’s writing prompt poses a deceptively simple question—one that seems light at first glance, yet carries the entire weight of the world we live in:

“What technology would you be better off without, and why?”

It’s fascinating how one small device has silently transformed our days, our thoughts, our creativity, and even the rhythm of our relationships. This question doesn’t just invite an answer—it invites introspection, encouraging us to imagine a life with more presence, more peace, and a gentler, more mindful connection to the world around us.

When I first read it, I smiled. After all, technology is the very reason you and I can share this moment. It is the bridge that carries emotions across screens, turning scattered thoughts into conversations.

Yet, as I sat with the question a little longer, it stirred something deeper. I was reminded of a quiet truth: the tools we create eventually begin to shape us—sometimes in ways we notice, and sometimes in ways we don’t.

And so, dear friends, let’s take a slow, reflective stroll through this question together…

Technology is like a double-edged sword—brilliant in its purpose, yet sharp enough to wound if held the wrong way.

It has empowered us to create, connect, store knowledge, save lives, and break boundaries that once felt impossible.

Yet, it has also changed the way we feel, speak, remember, love, and even breathe.

When I think of a technology that I would be better off without, one rises above all others:

Not the idea of communication, information, or mobility—but the hyperconnected, hyperdistracting, hyperconsuming smartphone that has slowly woven itself into every corner of our lives.

Let me clarify—I am not against smartphones. They are modern marvels.

But the version of myself that exists when I’m overly attached to it? That version is definitely someone I would be better off without.

Here’s why:

1. It steals presence.

There was a time when mornings began with cool breezes, gentle stretches, and quiet thoughts. Today, mornings often begin with glowing screens and endless notifications.

One moment I’m checking a message; the next moment I’m lost in a maze of posts, reels, ads, and updates that don’t truly matter.

Somewhere in this process, we lose the first breath of the day, that sacred silence that sets the tone of our inner world.

2. It dilutes creativity.

Creativity needs pauses, boredom, wandering thoughts, gentle daydreams—the empty spaces where ideas bloom.

Smartphones fill every empty second. Every pause becomes a scroll, every boring moment becomes a distraction.

Imagine how many poems, reflections, or deep conversations are sacrificed to the glowing rectangles in our hands.

A small vibration can change our mood. A message can lift us up or break us down. A comment can create anxiety. A “seen” can trigger overthinking.

Yes, the smartphone has become a vessel of emotional influence far beyond its physical size.

We are no longer waiting for important calls—we are waiting for emotional validation.

Ironically, the more connected our phones make us, the more disconnected we become from those who sit right beside us.

We eat with our phones, walk with our phones, talk with our phones sitting on the table like silent intruders.

Even relationships today often breathe through screens instead of hearts.

Once, we remembered birthdays, poems, roads, stories, and faces. Today, we remember passwords more than people.

Attention has become fragmented, memory outsourced, and experiences recorded instead of lived.

The phone captures the moment, but steals the memory.

If I stepped back from the smartphone—not the world, just the device—I imagine:

  • Mornings breathing slower
  • Conversations lasting longer
  • Eyes meeting eyes instead of screens
  • Walks becoming more mindful
  • Creativity returning in waves
  • Sleep becoming deeper
  • Relationships becoming warmer
  • And life gaining a little more colour, a little more texture, a little more truth

Not because technology is bad, but because sometimes we hold on too tightly.

The goal isn’t to throw away all technology. The goal is balance—to use tools without becoming tools ourselves.

Imagine using technology like a well-trained companion, not a restless master.

Imagine choosing which notifications earn your attention, which moments deserve the camera, and which deserve your presence.

We don’t need to abandon technology.
We simply need to reclaim our minds, our time, and our heartspace.

So, what technology would I be better off without?

The version of the smartphone that controls me.
The version that interrupts my silence.
The version that distracts me from my own life.

Technology should invite us forward—not pull us away from ourselves.

And perhaps the greatest freedom in this digital age is not disconnection…
but a selective connection.

BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE

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14 replies

  1. What a beautifully articulated and deeply resonant reflection, Verma Ji. This is more than just a comment on technology; it is a poignant meditation on modern life itself.

    Your writing has a rare and gentle power. You’ve taken a simple question and turned it into a mirror, allowing us all to see our own digital habits and their quiet cost. The way you describe the smartphone not as an evil, but as a force that shapes a “version” of ourselves we may not recognize, is incredibly insightful and compassionate.

    You are absolutely right. The goal is not to abandon these tools, but to reclaim the space they occupy in our minds and hearts. Your vision of a life with slower mornings, longer conversations, and restored creativity is not just a nostalgic dream—it’s a powerful and attainable call for mindfulness.

    Thank you for this gift of introspection. Your words are a gentle but firm reminder to be the master of our tools, and not the other way around. Truly thoughtful and inspiring.🌷🤝

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    • “Thank you so much for your thoughtful and heartfelt words! 🌷🤝
      Your reflection beautifully captures the deeper meaning behind my message,
      and I’m truly grateful for your insight and appreciation.
      Your kindness and understanding mean a lot to me.”

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  2. very nice .

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  3. My friend, your text leads us to profound reflections on the impact that smartphone technology can have on our lives and our relationship with the world. You present, very clearly, two scenarios: one with constant smartphone use and another without it. By exploring this paradox, you analyze, in a balanced way, both the benefits of using it in moderation and the advantages of giving it up. After all, excessive use of technology robs us of creativity, time, real connections, appreciation of the nature around us, and even the moment for our daily meditation. Thank you for bringing to light this perception about the hidden side of smartphones.🙂👏🏻✍🏻🖌️🎨

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    • “Thank you so much for your beautifully expressed reflection. Your words capture the essence of what I hoped to convey—that balance with technology is essential for preserving our creativity, our presence, and our connection with the world around us.

      I truly appreciate the depth and sensitivity of your response. Your insight adds even more meaning to the discussion.”

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  4. Well articulated post showcasing advantage and hidden problems of so called technology.. As said we don’t need to completely avoid smart phones for peace but embrace the postive aspects and blend with nature together.

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    • “Thank you so much for your thoughtful words. I fully agree—technology itself isn’t the enemy, it’s how mindfully we choose to use it.

      When we embrace its positive side while staying grounded in nature and real-world moments, life becomes far more balanced and meaningful. I truly appreciate your insightful perspective.”

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  5. Love it! Very well thought out and executed. I remember my life before technology which was very fulfilling and adventurous. I think boundaries need to be set. For me, I use my Mapquest when traveling. I love it when people asked, “Didn’t you have your phone?” And my response is No.

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    • That’s such a refreshing perspective! 😊✨
      There’s something truly enriching about remembering a life shaped by real experiences, not screens.
      Setting boundaries, as you said, keeps technology in its place—useful, but never overpowering.
      And your Mapquest story made me smile! It’s wonderful how you choose intentional living over constant digital dependence.

      A beautiful reminder that joy often comes from simplicity. 🌿📍

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  6. Its difficult isn’t it, the same technology can have so many positive impacts too. We need to learn, and teach others, how to use it responsibly … but we survived perfectly happily for hundreds of years without the smartphone. It would ba an interesting test to see how everyone would cope without it even for a day. I was recently thinking about how id plan for a research visit to the National Library in Edinburgh… 20-30 years ago would it have been necessary to plan out such a visit? How times have changed

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    • It really is remarkable how quickly our habits have shifted.
      You’re right—technology brings incredible benefits, but it also asks us to be more mindful in how we use it.
      A single day without a smartphone would probably feel challenging for many,
      yet it might also remind us of how capable and resourceful we were before constant connectivity.

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  7. Wonderful thoughts about the value and meaning of life and how it has been impacted by smartphones. I myself couldn’t imagine life without my smartphone. I rely on it to keep track of my day. I also use it when I go shopping and need to magnify a small print label. For important information and story ideas (like a scene), I take a photo to remember it for later.

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    • Absolutely — your reflections capture so well how deeply the smartphone has woven itself into the rhythm of modern life.
      For many of us, it has become less of a gadget and more of a practical companion: planner, magnifier, notebook, camera,
      and memory-keeper all in one.

      What matters most, I think, is exactly what you highlight — using it in ways that genuinely support our lives, creativity,
      and well-being. When technology becomes a tool that enhances rather than overwhelms, it can be an incredible gift.

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