
A Heartfelt Reflection on the Humans Who Enrich Our Journey
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and peaceful state of mind. Today’s writing prompt poses a question that feels simple, yet reveals profound emotional depth the moment we pause to reflect:
“Who are your current most favorite people?”
Our favorite people are rarely the most powerful, the most celebrated, or the ones the world loudly admires.
Instead, they are the ones whose presence uplifts us, whose words echo in our hearts long after conversations fade, and whose warmth makes even an ordinary day feel extraordinary.
As we move through the shifting chapters of life, the list of our “favorite people” naturally evolves.
Today, I want to share something deeply personal—the individuals who inspire me the most at this moment, and why they occupy such a cherished space in my heart.

1. Those Who Inspire Without Even Trying
Every life is blessed with someone who awakens our better nature simply by being themselves. These people carry quiet dignity and speak with a gentleness that hides oceans of wisdom.
In my own life, my brother, my mentors, my mother, and above all, my elder sister, are my current most favorite people.
They inspire not through grand acts, but through their steady consistency—waking up each day with purpose, standing strong through storms, and teaching me silently that resilience is an art.
Inspiration often doesn’t arrive wrapped in motivational speeches; it hides in discipline, patience, sacrifice, and unwavering goodness.
2. My Elder Sister — The Heart of My Inspiration
Among all the blessings life has given me, my Big Sister holds a place that no words can fully describe. She is the person I admire the most today—and perhaps always.
Recently, she celebrated her 84th birthday, yet she remains more active, more disciplined, and in many ways, even stronger than I am.
Just a month ago, I visited my native place, Patna, during the auspicious festival of Chhath Puja.
And to my amazement, at 84 years of age, she continues to perform every ritual with the same devotion and determination she has shown all her life.
Anyone familiar with Chhath Puja knows how physically demanding and spiritually intense it is. But she never complains, never hesitates, never steps back.
Dedication is the language she speaks fluently.
From my earliest days, she has been a guiding force—a blend of mentor, guardian, friend, and silent strength.
Through childhood mischief, youthful confusion, and adult responsibilities, she has stood beside me with profound patience and unwavering love.

3. Inspiration Unveiled: Lessons from Her Life
My sister represents resilience in its purest form. Her life has not been easy, yet she has always faced challenges with dignity and courage. Through her example, I learned one of life’s greatest truths:
Adversity is not a dead end; it is a stepping stone.
Her unwavering commitment to her values has shaped my character more than any book or classroom ever could. She taught me that strength is quiet, that kindness is powerful, and that dedication—especially dedication to family and responsibilities—is a form of worship.
4. The Pinnacle of Support
Our favorite people are not just those who celebrate our happiness but those who anchor us during our storms. My sister has been that anchor—a pillar of support during the most difficult moments of my life.
Her belief in my potential has fueled my determination. Whenever I doubted myself, she stood beside me with reassuring faith, reminding me that I am never alone. Such support is rare, precious, and deeply humbling.

5. Lessons That Shape a Lifetime
Life is an endless journey of learning, and my sister has been a fountain of wisdom. From handling relationships with grace to embracing change with courage, from maintaining discipline to valuing education—her teachings have become the compass of my life.
Her empathy taught me to understand beyond words.
Her kindness taught me to see beyond flaws.
Her hard work taught me to dream beyond limitations.
I often marvel at her strength and achievements, especially considering the adversities she faced. Her disciplined upbringing, her emphasis on values, her belief in education—especially for me, the youngest—shaped my own ethics and commitment.
6. The Ripple Effect of Her Influence
What makes someone a “favorite person” is not just their presence in your life but the impact of their character on your personality. My sister’s influence extends far beyond personal interactions.
Her integrity, compassion, determination, and spiritual strength have subtly shaped not only my life but also the lives of those who observe her and learn through her actions.
Her life is a gentle reminder that greatness does not require fame; it requires depth, sincerity, and service.

A Journey of Gratitude and Grace
Yes, dear friends,
Among all the remarkable individuals who enrich my life today, the one who stands at the very center of my admiration, gratitude, and love is my Big Sister.
Through shared memories, sacrifices, wisdom, and unwavering support, she has become not just my favorite person but a cornerstone of my identity.
As we navigate the shifting landscapes of life, may we all cherish those who leave a lasting imprint on our hearts—those who shape our stories, lift our spirits, and remind us that life is meaningful because of the love we receive and the love we give.
Our favorite people are not chosen by logic—they are chosen by the soul.
And my sister, without doubt, is one of the brightest souls in my journey.

BE HAPPY… BE ACTIVE… BE FOCUSED… BE ALIVE
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very nice
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Thank you so much.
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Your culture is interestung there and this post is a faith-filled one. Beautiful tribute to your family, Verma.
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Thank you so much for your kind words.❤️
I’m truly glad the post resonated with you. Our culture is woven with faith, family, and small everyday blessings, and it means a lot that you felt that spirit through the writing. Your appreciation is deeply valued. 🙏💐
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My pleasure, Verma
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Stay happy and blessed.
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What a profoundly moving and beautiful tribute, Verma Ji. Your words do not just describe your love for your elder sister; they allow us to feel its depth and purity. The image of her, at 84, performing the rigorous rituals of Chhath Puja with such unwavering devotion is incredibly powerful and speaks volumes about the strength of her character.
It is clear she is not just a sister but a living lesson in resilience, dignity, and quiet strength. The way you honor her—calling her dedication a “form of worship” and her life a reminder that “greatness does not require fame”—is truly touching. You have not only painted a perfect portrait of your “favorite person” but also reminded all of us to recognize and cherish the quiet pillars of strength in our own lives.
Thank you for sharing this piece of your heart with us. Your sister must be immensely proud of the person you have become, a testament to her lifelong teachings. This was a truly soul-stirring read.🤝🌷
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Thank you so much for your heartfelt words. Your appreciation touches me deeply. 🌷🙏
Indeed, my elder sister has been a guiding light in my life, and writing about her allowed me to pause and truly reflect on the immense blessings she has been. Your kind words make me feel that her strength and devotion resonate beyond my own life, reaching others as well.
I am grateful for your thoughtful reflection—it reminds me that the lessons we receive from such extraordinary people are meant to be shared, celebrated, and honored. She would indeed feel humbled and proud, and I feel blessed to carry forward the values she has instilled in me.
Thank you again for taking the time to read and connect with this tribute. 🤝💛
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As we move through the shifting chapters of life, the list of our “favorite people” naturally evolves.
Never really thought about that.
Even postmortem as we when people leave our lives the void is somewhat measurable.
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Absolutely, your reflection is very profound. 🌿
It’s true—our favorite people change as we grow, yet their impact remains lasting. Even after they leave our lives, whether by distance or by passing, the void they leave is deeply felt. It’s a silent measure of how much love, guidance, and inspiration they gave us. These impressions shape who we are and continue to guide us long after they’re gone.
It reminds us to cherish the presence of those we hold dear while we can, for their influence truly becomes a part of our soul. 💛
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Dear friend Verma ji, I’m really glad the tribute touched you. Your sister sounds absolutely amazing—having someone like that in your life must bring so much warmth and inspiration. If you’d like, I’d love to hear more about what makes her so special to you.
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Thank you so much, my dear friend, for your warm and thoughtful words. 🙏🌷
Yes, my elder sister truly is a remarkable soul. What makes her so special is not just her age or her devotion, but the quiet strength with which she has lived her entire life.
She has been a guide, a protector, a teacher, and at times even a second mother to me.
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Verma Sahib ,that was a profoundly touching tribute to your elder sister as described by you as to how she has been a guiding light in your life and her immense blessings have been great source of strength to you! I too feel that her strength and devotion resonate beyond your own life, reaching to others (including me)as well. I truly feel indebted to you for sharing such a touching subject 🙏🏾
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Thank you so much, my dear friend, for your deeply heartfelt words. 🙏🌷
It brings me immense comfort and gratitude to know that my sister’s journey, strength, and devotion resonate with you as well. When someone so close to our hearts becomes a source of inspiration to others, it feels like their light has extended far beyond the boundaries of our own life.
Her blessings, guidance, and quiet resilience have shaped me in countless ways, and to see you acknowledge that with such sincerity truly touches my heart. I am humbled that you felt connected to this tribute, and I am grateful that you received it with such warmth and understanding.
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It was my heart felt pleasure to acknowledge the guidance & innumerable blessings your sister showered upon you being a pillar of strength & resilience even at her age! We should all feel blessed & pray for her good health, Sir 🙏
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Thank you so much for your deeply touching words. Your heartfelt acknowledgment means a great deal. Yes, her strength, wisdom, and quiet blessings have shaped so much of my journey, and I truly feel grateful every day for her presence in my life.
Your kind prayers for her health and well-being are sincerely appreciated. May goodness and grace always surround you as well. 🙏🌺
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Thanks for your kind wishes🌹🙏
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You’re most welcome! 🌹🙏
I truly appreciate your gracious words. Wishing you continued joy, good health, and countless blessings ahead.
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Wow absolutely amazing and what a tribute to love and life and family and your sister has an entire presence that is met right through your words. What an honor to know more about her and why she is your favorite.
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Thank you so much for your heartfelt words. I’m truly touched that the tribute resonated with you so deeply. She really is a remarkable presence in my life, and knowing that her spirit came through in the writing means more than I can express.
Your kindness, appreciation, and warmth make sharing these memories even more meaningful. Warm regards to you!
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😊🤗🙏🙏have an amazing day and thank you for your awesome shares and I forgot to tell you I made those lentils I had as well and yummmmmy!!!
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That’s so lovely to hear! 😊🤗🙏
Thank you for your warm wishes — they truly brighten the day.
And I’m delighted you tried the lentils and enjoyed them… nothing better than a comforting, yummy meal!
Wishing you an amazing day as well, filled with good moments and good food. 🌼✨
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What a powerful and evocative piece! Your words move like living fire—mythic, lyrical, and deeply resonant. The imagery is stunning, and the emotional depth carries a rare brilliance. Truly a breathtaking creation.
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**A warm and thoughtful reflection! It highlights how the people we meet along life’s journey shape, enrich, and inspire us, reminding us to cherish the connections that bring meaning and joy.**
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Thank you so much for your lovely words. Your reflection beautifully captures the heart of human connection—how every person we cross paths with adds a little more depth, warmth, and wisdom to our journey. I truly appreciate your thoughtful perspective and the kindness behind your message.
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