
The Soul on a Plate
Hello dear friends,
I hope this blog finds you in a cheerful and cozy mood.
Today’s writing prompt is as delightful as a plate of warm food on a rainy day—“What’s your go-to comfort food?” Just reading this question brings a gentle smile to my face and a sudden craving to my stomach.
Because food is not merely about taste—it’s a feeling, a memory, a hug in edible form.
What is Comfort Food, Anyway?
Comfort food isn’t defined by any culinary dictionary. It’s not fancy or complicated. It’s personal. It’s the dish that wraps you in its arms when life feels heavy.
It’s the smell that takes you back to your childhood, the texture that reminds you of home, and the flavour that comforts your heart more than your stomach.
It is, as the word suggests, comforting—offering a sense of familiarity and reassurance, especially during moments of stress, sadness, or nostalgia.
The Science Behind the Sizzle
Did you know there’s actual science behind why comfort foods feel so satisfying?
When we eat something we love, especially carbohydrates or dishes associated with fond memories, our brain releases dopamine—a “feel-good” chemical that boosts mood.
Comfort food is often associated with emotional memories stored in the brain’s limbic system. That’s why a simple khichdi can outshine a gourmet buffet on a bad day.
So when we say dal-chawal is healing, it truly is—neurologically speaking.

My Go-To Comfort Food
Now, coming to the heart of the question: What’s my go-to comfort food?
It’s “Aloo Paratha with Curd and Mango Pickle.”
Warm, flaky, golden-brown parathas filled with spiced mashed potatoes, served with homemade white butter, cool curd, and tangy mango pickle on the side.
Just writing about it is therapeutic.
To me, it’s not just a dish—it’s a memory of lazy Sunday mornings, mother’s loving hands rolling the dough, and the irresistible aroma wafting from the kitchen.
It’s the sound of laughter at breakfast, the warmth of family, and the simplicity of love expressed through food.
It reminds me that no matter where life takes you, there’s always a plate waiting at home to heal your soul.
Why That Particular Dish?
Everyone’s comfort food is tied to emotion. For some, it’s maggi, for others it’s ice cream, or maybe a bowl of ramen. But for me, aloo paratha ticks all the boxes:
- Texture: Crispy outside, soft inside.
- Flavour: Mildly spicy, slightly tangy, perfectly balanced.
- Memory: Deeply rooted in childhood and family warmth.
- Ease: It’s simple enough to cook, even on a low day.
- Satiation: It fills not just the belly but the heart.
Comfort food doesn’t try to impress; it tries to heal.

The Universal Language of Food
Interestingly, comfort food varies across cultures, but its effect is universal.
In Japan, it might be miso soup; in Italy, it’s pasta al forno. In the U.S., it could be mac and cheese or chicken soup.
And in every Indian household, it differs—rajma chawal, khichdi, poha, halwa, or even a cup of strong adrak chai with biscuits.
We all carry within us the taste of our memories.
Comfort Food in Difficult Times
There’s a reason why people turn to their favourite meals during heartbreak, stress, or illness. Comfort food provides psychological grounding—it’s familiar, dependable, and forgiving.
During the pandemic, many of us found ourselves cooking those old recipes again. Not to impress Instagram followers, but to reconnect with ourselves and our roots.
Sometimes, when the world outside feels out of control, a warm bowl of food is the anchor we hold on to.

And finally: A Plate of Peace
So, dear friends, what is your go-to comfort food?
Is it something you grew up with? Something you cook when you’re tired? Or something you order on a rainy day with your favorite song playing in the background?
Whatever it is, treasure it. It’s more than just food—it’s your personal antidote to stress. It’s your edible lullaby.
As for me, I’ll be in the kitchen soon, flipping an aloo paratha, humming an old song, and pouring a little love onto my plate.
Quote to Remember:
“Food is symbolic of love when words are inadequate.” – Alan D. Wolfelt
So go ahead—plate your memories, savour your nostalgia, and celebrate your comfort.
Until next time,
Stay happy, eat well, and keep smiling! ❤️
— Vijay Verma
www.retiredkalam.com
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What a beautiful ode to comfort food Verma ji ! Your words capture the warmth, nostalgia, and soul-deep satisfaction that a simple dish like aloo paratha can bring. It’s amazing how food transcends taste and becomes a vessel for love, memory, and healing.
My comfort food? A steaming bowl of khichdi with ghee—simple, soft, and soothing, like a hug from home.
Thank you for this heartfelt reminder that the meals we cherish are more than just fuel—they’re edible pieces of our story. 💛
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Thank you so much for your warm and thoughtful words! 🌼
I truly believe that the simplest dishes often hold the deepest meaning—and your choice of khichdi with ghee is the perfect example of that. There’s something incredibly grounding and nurturing about it, isn’t there?
It’s amazing how food has this quiet power to bring us home, not just to a place, but to a feeling.
I’m so glad this piece resonated with you—it means a lot. 💛
Wishing you many more cozy meals and beautiful memories to come!
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very nice
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Thank you so much.
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I’d say roast potatoes. Weirdly specific, but they remind me of big family dinners growing up. The smell of them cooking always felt like home. It’s not really about the food, it’s about what it brings back.
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Ah, roast potatoes—what a wonderfully nostalgic choice! 🥔✨
There’s nothing weird about that at all. In fact, it beautifully illustrates how comfort food isn’t just about flavor,
but about feeling. The golden crispness, the aroma wafting through the house, the sound of laughter around the dinner table—
it all becomes a time capsule of love and belonging.
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt memory. It’s a lovely reminder that sometimes, the simplest foods carry the richest stories. 💛
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On a cold day, beef chilli. On a hot day, cucumber salad and watermelon. Every day: ice cream! 🤣
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Haha, now that’s a perfect year-round comfort strategy! 😄❄️☀️🍦
Beef chilli to warm the soul, cucumber salad and watermelon to keep it cool, and ice cream—well,
that’s just universal happiness in a bowl! I love how your comfort foods adapt with the weather but always include a touch of joy.
Thanks for sharing this delicious trio—it’s a reminder that comfort can come in many forms, and sometimes,
it’s best served cold… and sweet! 😋🍉🍨
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Yep. Gotta have joy! 🤩
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Absolutely! 🌟
Joy is the secret ingredient that makes every bite, every moment, truly unforgettable.
Whether it’s a warm meal, a cool treat, or a shared smile—it’s that sprinkle of joy that turns the ordinary into something magical.
Keep savoring the sweetness of life—one joyful bite at a time! 😄🍽️✨
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Yes, dal-chawal or khichri is truly therapeutic! It works every time, even when dal is just boiled with dry red chillies, dry coconut, salt and turmeric – without oil.
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Very correct, dear🌿
Dal-chawal or khichri has that comforting simplicity which nourishes both body and soul. Even in its most minimal form, it carries warmth, healing, and a sense of home. 🍲✨
Thank you for sharing your feelings . And, I am sorry for delayed reply.
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Yess, you got me there ☺️
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Thank you so much, dear.
Stay happy and blessed.❤️
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